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Tag Archive | "Men vs. Women"

What to Do When You Have Zero Sex Drive

Friday, January 30, 2015

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 23-year old woman in a relationship with a wonderful guy — we’re celebrating two years together this month. We’re pretty serious about each other, but we have a serious hangup:¬† I have very little sex drive.¬† I’m not sure if he’s got an average drive or [...]

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Wise Guys: Are Blue Balls Real?

Wednesday, January 28, 2015

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photo via Flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “What do blue-balls feel like… is it really that painful, or that big a deal? Is it even a real physical phenomenon?” Straight Single Guy (Tyler Barnett): Blue balls are the testicular equivalent of a migraine headache. They are [...]

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Dick of the Week: William Giraldi

Thursday, January 22, 2015

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photo via flickr William Giraldi wrote a personal essay for The Baffler called “This Brat’s for You.” Have you encountered this polished turd being bandied about the internet yet?¬†In the piece, Giraldi bemoans the fact that he got paternity leave from his employer for the birth of his first child, became so utterly bored by [...]

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Wise Guys: How Can Women Pick Up Men in Bars?

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What are the best ways for a woman to pick up a man in a bar? Gay Single Guy (Daniel): Well, what kind of bar is it? If it’s a sports bar, talk about the game of course! I‚Äôm [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Ever Choose Masturbation Over Sex?

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

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photo via Flickr¬† Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “Do guys ever choose masturbation over sex? If so, why?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Sure. Plenty of times. Sometimes my wife isn’t around and I don’t really feel like waiting. Or sometimes she is around but really tired, or [...]

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10 Quick Lessons from “Parenting Beyond Pink and Blue”

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

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I consider myself a hardcore feminist (I’ve even got the T-shirt), one who’s attuned to all the gender stereotypes bombarding us daily. I work hard to combat them whenever and wherever I can. But I don’t live in a vacuum, and I’ve found myself falling into traps I thought I could avoid: like talking tougher [...]

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The Revolution Will Be Televised: 15 Great Recent Feminist Shows

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

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Netflix’s “Happy Valley” “The Golden Girls” was a historic show: four central characters, all female and all over the age of 60! Of course, back in the ’80s, it was an aberration: throughout television history, female actors have been in supporting roles mostly, with an emphasis on their youth and beauty. Sex and the City [...]

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Men Don’t Skip Sex When Their Bodies Aren’t Perfect – Neither Should Women

Friday, September 19, 2014

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by YourTango ¬†| ¬†photo via flickr The first time I saw¬†Crazy, Stupid,¬†Love¬†and the completely unforgettable scene where¬†Ryan Gosling‘s character takes off his shirt and Emma Stone‚Äôs character says, “It’s like you’re Photoshopped,” I cringed. It wasn’t just that, “OMG, are you effing kidding me,” that came with those abs, but because I just don’t get [...]

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Your Call: Is It Fine for a Grown, Non-Religious Man to Be Celibate?

Monday, September 15, 2014

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Your Call: Help, My Husband Has ZERO Sex Drive!

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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