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Poll: Who’s Most Fun to Role-Play on TV?

Thursday, July 29, 2010


Which TV show has the best role-playing potential? (Feel free to explain your answer or suggest another option in the feedback section.)Market Research Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

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Your Call on Spank Tuesday: How Do I Get My Guy to Spank Me?

Tuesday, January 5, 2010


photo via Rachel_Kramer_Bussel “Spank Tuesday” continues with this question from a reader: Dear Em & Lo, How do I ask my husband to spank me? It is many years since I was spanked. Do I just ask him or buy a paddle as a Valentine’s gift or what? – Red-Cheeked Wannabe What should Red-Cheeked Wannabe [...]

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Truth or Dare for Grownups — Really Lazy Grownups

Friday, November 6, 2009

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Truth or Dare has sadly bitten the dust, but you can find lots of other fun adult games at GoodVibes.com. There’s a reason why Truth or Dare is mostly played by high school kids — because they’re the only ones who are willing to spend hours coming up with creative truths or dares to get [...]

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Slutty Pirate Panties a New Low for Our Nation

Friday, October 30, 2009


If you hadn’t guessed yet, slutty Halloween costumes are a bit of a pet issue of ours, especially — okay, mostly — Em’s. Em thinks Halloween turns the country into a nation of Hooters waitresses; Lo thinks that if a fully grown woman wants to use the spooky holiday to embrace her inner exhibitionist, she [...]

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Halloween Is for Role-Playing

Wednesday, October 28, 2009


photo by tsuacctnt If you hate karaoke and public speaking is one of your greatest fears, then the whole idea of acting out your fantasies probably sounds about as appealing as, well, karaoke and public speaking. If that’s you, then you can use Halloween to gently test the sexual benefits of role-playing. It’s the perfect [...]

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Do It Tonight: Blindfold Your Partner

Friday, August 21, 2009


photo by nyki_m The blindfolds that come free with a transatlantic Virgin flight (oh, really, you shouldn‚Äôt have, Richard Branson) are sometimes printed with the phrase “forty winks” — and we think we know what kind of winks they‚Äôre talking about. Who hasn‚Äôt stuffed a complimentary blindfold into their carry-on and thought, “Ooh, I should [...]

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Your Call: Can a Marriage Survive a Consensual Third Party?

Tuesday, August 4, 2009


photo by linh.ng√Ęn We know that a helpful answer to this question goes deeper than a multiple-choice poll, so we encourage you to cast your vote and then leave your advice/war stories/encouragement for Maybe Baby in the comments section below. Dear Em & Lo, I hope you can help me and my wife with our [...]

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Do It Tonight! Make Your One-Night Stand a Little Naughtier

Friday, January 23, 2009

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photo by Aoife city womanchile Next time you take a beautiful stranger back to your place for a one-night stand, use the opportunity to experiment with acts that you consider out of character. (And no, we don’t mean letting them tie you up — remember, kids: don’t stare at the sun, don’t run with scissors, [...]

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Poll: Could You Sleep with Oedipus/Electra?

Thursday, January 15, 2009


If a partner wanted to call you “Mommy” or “Daddy” in bed, would you be up for it? ( polls)

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Dear Em & Lo: How Great Should First-Time Sex with a New Partner Be?

Wednesday, January 7, 2009


photo by carulmare Dear Em and Lo, I was married for 20 years and now I am not.¬† I’m not crying in my soup (is that the term?). I’ve learned a lot about what makes for a crappy relationship and bad sex. And, thanks in large part to your articles and website, I have gained [...]

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