News
Happy Movember!

When women want to promote breast cancer awareness, they turn everything pink and post inane (sorry, we mean, hilariously double-entendre) Facebook status updates about where they like to hang their pocketbook. When men want to promote prostate cancer awareness, they grow temporary hipster ironic mustaches in the month of November. Get it, Movember? Depending on […]

Websites
Blog Snog: The Curse of Being Cute

photo via Flickr CollegeCandy: The curse of being cute. How About We: The 50 most ridiculous deal breakers you’ve ever heard. TresSugar: 3 ways to optimize your online dating search. YourTango: Why she won’t sleep with you. EdenFantasys’ Sexis: Oh, Kim. Has marriage EVER had sanctity? TheFrisky: When dirty talk goes TOO far. HuffPo Women: […]

Pop Culture
The Marlboro Man Is Wearing Spanx

Spanx, for the uninitiated, is a line of slimming lingerie. Got a body part that’s a little bumpier or bulgier than you’d like? Chances are, Spanx makes a product to smooth it over. Spanx have long been one of Oprah’s “Favorite Things” and celebrities rave about them. Okay, female celebrities rave about them. But we […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Should She Dump Her Unaffectionate Boyfriend?

photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. My boyfriend of one year and nine […]

Toys
A New Sex Toy for Men, the REV1000

When it comes to sex toys, men get the short end of the stick. Besides butt plugs (a.k.a. the short end of the stick, ba dum ching!), there’s just not that many innovative options — a few massage sleeves, a couple of love rings, and some blow-up dolls (and, if you ask us, blow up […]

Polls
Question of the Week: When Do You Leave the Bathroom Door Open?

photo via flickr Occasionally on this site, we ask you guys an impertinent question and you can share your answer in the comments section below. Feel free to share your age, gender, relationship status, sexuality, etc., if you feel that it’s relevant to the answer. This week’s burning (in a good way) question: When in […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Kate, My Little Man in the Boat Hurts When Stimulated

photo via Flickr Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions every few weeks on EMandLO.com. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, Why does it hurt to stimulate my clitoris and what can I do about […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Don’t Hide Your Porn Habit

photo via flickr I second the importance of ethical porn consumption and highly recommend Abby Winters, which is woman-owned and operated. It’s definitely better to bring up the topic of porn early on in a relationship, than to wait for it to come out when you get caught. If you hide it, it will seem […]

News
Naked News: Babies Clamor for Dubious “7 Billionth” Honor

Parents across the globe claim their baby was number 7 billion. Study shows only men think men are funnier than women. Gene Simmons’ bandmate says he’s a sex addict. And a poopyface. FAA says skydiving sex stunt with pornstar didn’t violate any regulations. Read the rest of this post on SUNfiltered

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: What Do You Wish You’d Known About Relationships Earlier?

photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do you wish you had known about relationships when you were younger?“ To ask the guys your own question, click here. Married Straight Guy (Irad Eyal of Sexdegrees.net): I’m going to take this way back and interpret “younger” […]

News
The Female Reproductive Tract Explained in Rachel Maddow’s Man Cave

Wait, that title didn’t come out quite right. “Man Cave” is not meant as a euphemism here, especially for Rachel Maddow’s lady parts (for several reasons). No, the “man cave” is just one of her dorky gimmicks whereby she tells her female viewers to take a break, pops a brewskie, puts up some sport paraphernalia […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: My Friends Laughed at a Pic of Me Kissing

photo via flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: Last night I dreamed two dreams. The […]

Websites
Blog Snog: 6 Common Interests That Mean You’re Destined to Be Together

photo via Flickr CollegeCandy: Why I hate handjobs. How About We: 6 common interests that basically mean you were meant to be together. TresSugar: 7 couples that make us laugh. YourTango: 7 reasons to date a military man. EdenFantasys’ Sexis: Breast cancer is not a pink ribbon. TheFrisky: Top 10 most amazing penises. HuffPo Women: […]

Websites
Blog Snog: The Trick or Treat Edition

photo via College Candy College Candy: What his Halloween costume says about him. The Frisky: 20 (more) WTF sexy Halloween costumes. Your Tango’s Love Bytes: How to spot an emotional vampire. Tres Sugar: Favorite spooky movie couples. Eden Fantasys Sexis: Learn about spectrophilia, i.e. sex with ghosts. How About We: Why a haunted house is a […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Should He Use Halloween to Introduce Her to His Kinky Side

photo via DailyBillboard We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. I’ve recently started seeing a woman I […]

Uncategorized
The Sexy Librarian Is a Man, Baby

Zack, Mr. January We’re not sure which is the most pervasive stereotype about librarians — that she wears her hair in a bun, wears glasses, and likes to shush people, or that she is secretly a sex fiend who likes to shake out her bun and whip off her glasses. Either way, male librarians are […]