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Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Could Men Be Trusted to Take a Birth Control Pill?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Would most guys take the birth control pill if it was available to them? When it does become available, should women trust guys to take it correctly, so it’s effective?” Ask the Wise Guys Your Own Question! (Two of the guys, completely independently, […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Help, I Slept with My Tattoo Artist Before the Tattoo Is Done!

photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader.Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry […]

Dream Interpretation
Dreams: Every Night I Cheat on My Boyfriend with My Ex and Get Caught

photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: So I’ve been with my boyfriend for […]

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Wise Guys: Is There Such a Thing As Too Much Porn?

Advice from Ask the Wise GuysYour Own Question! three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Is there such a thing as too much porn? If so, how much is too much?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Tom Miller): Yes. If beating off makes getting […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Chopped Off My Willy in the Tub

photo via flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: Well I just had a very disturbing […]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Want Less Sex As a Relationship Progresses?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do guys tend to want to have sex less often as a relationship progresses? Is that normal, or is that a sign that a relationship is on the outs?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Figleaf): It’s […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: A Dream Helps a Woman Heal Her Past

photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: This is a very strange dream and […]

How To
Top 10 Sex Tips for First Year College Students

For many young men and women, this week marks the start of a new chapter of life — one of higher learning, critical thinking, problem solving, horizon broadening, and lots and lots of casual bonking. It’s a whole new world of unchaperoned independence and freedom combined with 18-year-old hormones — which can result in a […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Is Female Ejaculation a Goal for Straight Men in Bed?

photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Is female ejaculation a goal straight guys try to go for in bed? Or would most guys be surprised — grossed out, even — if it happened?“ To ask the guys your own question, click here. Single Straight Guy (Megan): One sad truth […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Chopped Off My Own Balls

photo via flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: I had a dream I chopped off […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Can You Fall in Love Through Video Chats?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  Dear Em & Lo, I met a great man through an […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Do Men Really Think About Baseball to Last Longer?

photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do men really think about baseball to make sex last longer? If they don’t know anything about baseball, what else do they think about?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Tom Miller): I […]

Dream Interpretation
My Husband Dreamed That I Wanted a Threeway

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: My husband and I have been having trouble in bed. […]

Dear Em & Lo
What’s a Nice Way to Give Directions in Bed?

photo via flickr Hey readers, got your own question for us? Submit it here. We may not answer them all, but we read every one, and we care, we really do. Dear Em & Lo, I truly enjoy sex with my boyfriend, but I don’t orgasm through sex.  We are a relatively new couple, and […]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Know Whether Their Male Friends Are Circumcised?

photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do guys ever discuss circumcision with each other? Do you tend to know whether your guy friends are circumcised or not?” To ask the guys your own question, click here.   Gay Single Guy (Justin Huang): Gross. I don’t know whether any of my […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Nearly Cheated, Now My GF Has Bad Dreams

photo via flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I hope you have some kind of idea […]