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Confessions
Comment of the Week: Dump Him!

photo via Flickr Sometimes you just need a bunch of total strangers to tell it to you straight. So far everyone agrees that the subject of this week’s “Your Call” query should end things once and for all with her deadbeat dude. Lisa Lisa’s was our favorite delivery of this tough love: Delete his number; […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Can You Downgrade 3-Year Relationship to “Casual”?

photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to […]

Horoscopes
Your Weekly Horoscopes: 11-11-13

photo by Simply Schmoopie Each week, we at EMandLO.com predict the course of your love life for the week with our own version of irreverent horoscopes — ignore our advice at your own peril! (Hyperbole intended for dramatic effect.)  aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) Things will get better as the week progresses. Try to have patience if the person you’ve […]

News
Happy Veterans Day!

photo via Wikipedia: Petty Officer 2nd Class Marissa Gaeta of the USS Oak Hill (LSD-51) shares the traditional “first kiss” with her fiancée, Petty Officer 3rd Class Citlalic Snell We’re taking the day off — your regularly scheduled dose of love, sex, and everything in between will return tomorrow. In the meantime, take a moment […]

Dear Em & Lo
Help, I’m a Woman Who Orgasms in Her Sleep!

Dear Em & Lo, I have been having orgasms in my sleep since I was a small kid. I have always thought there was something wrong with me because you only really hear of men having wet dreams, not women. And now I’m 26 and I still have them at lease once or twice in […]

Uncategorized
Blog Snog: “Love Actually” Is Actually Not a Good Movie

How About We: The Xmas classic “Love Actually” is actually not a good movie. Nerve: Unable to live up to your grandparents’ epic love? The Frisky: 8 technological sex interruptions that totally ruin the moment. Your Tango: Are you guilty of “the baggage dump”? PopSugar: An interview with the maker of “Unhung Hero,” a cockumentary which asks […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Dreamed My Crush Was Under Anesthesia

photo via flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I had a dream about a coworker that I have a […]

Pop Culture
Get Mortified: How to Celebrate Your Awkward Teen Years

One of the most moving moments in the new documentary Mortified Nation — based on the popular and hilarious Mortified live show that has been staged across the country — is when a participant talks about how teens just want to be heard. They don’t necessarily need to feel understood — especially by adults — but they […]

Pop Culture
Top 10 Worst “Breast Cancer Awareness” Memes

Don’t get us wrong: We’re all for raising awareness of breast cancer  (we just wish other forms of cancer had such good publicity reps), but we think sometimes all this supposed “awareness” can lull people into thinking they’ve actually contributed something worthwhile and concrete. At their best, these online awareness memes usually do nothing at […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Friends with Benefits Starts with Friends

Reader Anathema said the following in response to our post, “Your Call: Is This a FWB Situation or Something More?” We’re pretty sure she’s the most well-adjusted friend-with-benefits we’ve ever heard of! I had a wonderful FWB thing with a guy for 2 1/2 years. He and I were both in open relationships (which is why […]

Toys
Feel the Force: Star Wars Vibrators

Geeks of the world, get excited! Balazs Sarmai, a photography, video and web artist based in Hungary, just designed a series of Star Wars sex toys based on actual LELO pleasure objects. They’re “Force powered,” aw yeah. C-3PO (above) is a LELO GIGI 2, R2-D2 is a LELO ALIA, Vader is a LELO IDA and the Stormtrooper is a LELO TARA. You […]

Toys
New Spray Helps Men Go Longer (Without Numbing Her)

photo via flickr Until now, any product on the market that was designed to help a man go longer in bed had the highly unfortunate side effect of numbing his female partner in the process. Who really wants sex to last longer if you can’t feel anything? Enter Promescent, a brand new FDA-approved over-the-counter spray for […]

Dear Em & Lo
Why Does My G-Spot Feel So Good… Then Hurt So Bad?

photo by liz_noise Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, When my partner stimulates my G-spot, it starts off feeling incredible. I then slowly feel how it becomes more and more sensitive (even while becoming more sensitive it feels nice), however I eventually come to a point […]

Horoscopes
Your Weekly Horoscopes: 11-04-13

photo by Simply Schmoopie Each week, we at EMandLO.com predict the course of your love life for the week with our own version of irreverent horoscopes — ignore our advice at your own peril! (Hyperbole intended for dramatic effect.)  aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) You are the driver. You are the lead in the show. You are the forward. You […]

Websites
Blog Snog: All the Reasons to Love Guys with Beards

The Frisky: 13 totally unsexy ways to improve your love life. Your Tango: Can you have a great marriage without a spicy love life? Nerve: The perils of the seasonal significant other. How About We: All the reasons why you should love guys with beards. PopSugar: Celebrities who dressed up for Halloween.

Toys
Send Your Halloween Pic to LELO for a Chance to Win Big!

sponsored post So did you get a good pic of your Halloween costume? If so, show LELO what you wore and you could win some awesome prizes! THE HOW: Just share a picture of your costume on Instagram, and tag @LELO_official (that’s them!), #HallowINA, #IdaForMe and #Halloween. It’s a lot of tags, but for LELOs, it’s worth […]