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Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Walk in on My Boyfriend Cheating with 2 Women

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: Last night, in my dream, I was about 7 months pregnant (I really want […]

How To
The Top 5 Writing Lessons of Fifty Shades of Grey

The biggest selling book of 2012 was Fifty Shades of Grey. Not only has it introduced many people to the world of kink, it’s given them a lesson in how not to write. And if a lack of literary merit isn’t going to slow down sales, well, at least people can learn about the elements […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: How to Have Sex with a Small Penis

photo via Flickr Last week Carl commented on our most popular post ever, “Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me.” If only everyone could be this smart, well-adjusted and cool about sex, the world would be a better place: Wow, 572 comments over 3 1/2 years, and still people finding […]

Pop Culture
Top 10 Worst Lines in Rom Com History

Maybe you think that nominating specific lines in romantic comedy as bad is kind of superfluous. But that’s probably because you’re thinking only of Kate Hudson’s oeuvre — and forgetting about, say, ANNIE HALL or MOONSTRUCK. Remember when Nicolas Cage told Cher: “Loretta, I love you. Not like they told you love is, and I […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Can a Man Be Talked into an Open Relationship?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “I want to have an open relationship, but my boyfriend doesn’t want to open up the relationship. I don’t want to break up, what should I do?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Ben): Easy answer — if you don’t want […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Why Can’t You Decide About Kids AFTER You Marry?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: How Can a Woman Enjoy Lots of Sex Without Shame?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on this woman’s letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our […]

Websites
Blog Snog: Modern Love Advice from Cleopatra

photo via Flickr HuffPo Women: Modern Love Advice from Cleopatra YourTango: 3 Self-Empowering Steps to a Sexier Sex Life  Nerve: The Best Nerve Features of 2012 TresSugar: Date Ideas That Won’t Break the Bank How About We: Finding the Balance Between Caution and Free-Falling When Dating The Frisky: What’s IN And OUT For 2013 (the Frisky’s Predictions) 150 Shades […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: Engaged But Dreaming of My Crush

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: I have had two dreams now about this guy who I have been […]

Personal Essays
The REAL Reasons Why Yoga Improves Your Sex Life

photo via flickr Is your New Year’s resolution to improve both your health and your sex life? There are lots of ways you can do this. Semenax can improve sexual performance as well as produce bigger loads of semen. Eating more aphrodisiacs can boost libido as well as provide more nutrients. Yoga could be also […]

Confessions
Size Matters… The Size of Your Vocabulary, That Is

photo via flickr In response to a less than eloquent (though well intentioned) comment in the post “My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis,” reader Dallas said the following. Thank you, Dallas, for so succinctly reminding readers everywhere that a large vocabulary can take you places a large penis never will. And we don’t just […]

How To
5 Ways That Getting Kinky Can Improve Your Relationship

photo via flickr Our new book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, is on sale now. Here are five good reasons to check it out and get your kink on… 1. INCREASED TRUST It takes a boatload of trust to let someone tie you up or clamp your nipples or spank you […]

Horoscopes
New Year’s Horoscopes

photo via flickr Each week, we at EMandLO.com predict the course of your love life for the week with our own version of irreverent horoscopes — ignore our advice at your own peril! (Hyperbole intended for dramatic effect.) aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) Stop trying to chase away loneliness with casual sex. Remember that cheap wine and karaoke with friends […]

News
Happy New Year!

We’re still on holiday, and hope you are too! We’ll be back in full swing on Wednesday, January 2nd. In the meantime, don’t forget to make your New Year’s Resolutions with the help of our kinky guide. A great way to help you fulfill those resolutions is to buy our new book 150 Shades of […]

News
CONTEST: Tweet Our Book and Win LELO’s Massage Oil & Candle

LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candles ***THIS CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED*** We just know that you, dear and loyal reader, have already bought your copy of our new book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. (Right? Right! If not, you can order it right now to make yourself feel better about reading this […]

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Blog Snog: 5 Love Lessons from TV in 2012

YourTango: 5 love lessons TV taught us in 2012. Nerve: Why I will never sleep with an On the Road fanatic. TresSugar: What celebrity women said about love and sex in 2012. How About We: 7 creative, thoughtful, last-minute gift ideas. HuffPo Women: The 101 most amazing things women said on Twitter this year. The Frisky: 30 important sex […]