Last week Carl commented on our most popular post ever, “Advice: My New Boyfriend Has a Small Penis…At Least, It’s Small to Me.” If only everyone could be this smart, well-adjusted and cool about sex, the world would be a better place:
Wow, 572 comments over 3 1/2 years, and still people finding this advice posting! Em and Lo, you got people going with this.
OK, I’m a guy and very small downstairs, and I think the original advice is sound, and the comments open, honest, and informative. For women who want: (1) an exclusive/monagamous sexual relationship; (2) satisfying sex as an important part of that relationship; and (3) a feeling of being stretched and filled by a large natural penis (not a dildo, vibrator, or extender sleeve) is essential to satisfying sex, I can understand that. Just tell the guy. If he’s very small, as I am, he should find a playful way to tell a woman who has become a romantic interest before they ever get to the point of stripping each other for sex in full-passion mode. It can be a bit awkward, but there are lots of ways to do it: hints, asking about likes and dislikes in bed. The only time a guy who’s very small shouldn’t disclose is when he thinks she has no interest in having sex with him. Guys with tiny peckers generally don’t chase women just to get them into bed, based soley on lust and physical attraction. The humiliation and negative consequences can be pretty severe.
Sure, I’m never going to wow a woman with vaginal penetrative intercourse. However, if a small one isn’t a dealbreaker for her, I am going to make sure she’s well-pleased in other ways, and then it may be my reward for satisfying her. I learned early-on not to try to make it the main event, or I would leave her frustrated and disappointed.
If it is a dealbreaker in a relationship, or if sex with me just doesn’t do it for her, I begrudge no woman following her dreams and preferences.
MORE LIKE THIS FROM EMandLO.com:
First, how small is a small penis?
Second, how big is her vagina?
And third, man, you can do something to somehow thicken or lengthen your pecker if you really want to hit lot’s of v’s out there.. 🙂