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Tag Archive | "Blowjobs"

Comment of the Week: Please Don’t Go Down On Me. Seriously.

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

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photo via RestAssured Reader Henry wrote the following in response to our post, “Dear Em & Lo: I Hate Receiving Blowjobs.”¬†Sure, men who would rather get a root canal than a blowjob may be rarer than a unicorn who hates rainbows, but still: they’re out there. And for the men who feel this way, it’s [...]

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The Real Reason Why Guys Love Blowjobs So Much

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What’s the big deal about blowjobs — seriously, what makes them so special? Gay Single Guy (Daniel): On the physical level, it’s simple: they feel fucking amazing. They provide physical sensations so desirable that a straight man would let [...]

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Why No Blowjobs Can Be a Dealbreaker for Men

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

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photo via flickr Last week we published reader Sara’s impassioned comment about blowjobs, and how they are not an inalienable right. This week, we are publishing two responses to her by two of our equally thoughtful, passionate, intelligent male readers, Derek and Steve. Can we just say how much we love that a debate like [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Am I Being Too Selfish In Bed?

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

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Dear Em & Lo, Every time my boyfriend and I “engage,” he turns me on then asks me to give him a BJ. After I do, I’m not as interested anymore. It happens every time. I’m very uncomfortable when I perform a BJ, and it takes away from the pleasure. I want to know if [...]

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Wise Guys: Is It Really Such a Big Deal If I Hate Giving Blowjobs?

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

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Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: ‚ÄúI really hate going down on guys. I’ve tried it, I don’t like it. In fact, I loathe it. I feel bad about it, but if I don’t expect oral in return (I don’t), then why should I feel compelled to do [...]

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Comment of the Week: Don’t Push Your Sexual Preferences On Me!

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

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In an articulate response to our post, “Dear Em & Lo: I Hate Receiving Blowjobs,”¬†reader Yves compares blowjob peer pressure to ardent evangelism by born-again Christians: You know what makes it easier to like something? Being able to choose freely whether to do it (or have it done to you). That means being pressured is [...]

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Confession: My Love-Hate Relationship with the 69 Position

Thursday, May 9, 2013

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Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has this to say about the pros and cons of the 69 position… I will, with ease and without shame, say that 69 is a profoundly silly position. Sure, it sounds great upon first listen. We [...]

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Top 10 Ways to Make Oral Sex More Fun for Both Partners

Thursday, March 14, 2013

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Our contributor Jewely Hoxie studies Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz (read her blog here). She has some words of wisdom to share about oral sex… Going down on someone is no easy task. And letting someone go down on you can be quite nerve-racking. Despite these potential oral sex setbacks, the [...]

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Comment of the Week: How I Learned to Enjoy Giving Blowjobs

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

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photo via flickr Reader Female said the following in response to our oldie-but-goodie post, “Wise Guys: What Makes a Great BJ?” I never did blowjobs, I found them to be degrading to women, especially when referred to as ‚Äúgobbies‚ÄĚ — I suppose it‚Äôs that image of the town bikes handing them out at parties that [...]

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