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Tag Archive | "Communication"

Once More with Feeling: Why He Didn’t Call

Friday, December 19, 2014

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, I am interested in this man and I think he is interested in me.  I will call him if I am in his area and ask him to grab a drink with me and my friends.  This is usually last minute.  The past two times he was busy [...]

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Comment of the Week: DTMFA!

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

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Reader Inness channeled her inner Dan Savage this week (DTMFA — look it up) with a heartfelt response to the post, “Help: My Inability to Orgasm Is Ruining My Relationship.”¬†Now what we want to know is: How can we ensure that our snappy acronyms make it into the Urban Dictionary? DTMFA. This guy is shaming [...]

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4 Ways to Tell a Guy You’ve Been Faking

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

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Are you a liar, liar, whose pants, unfortunately, are not on fire at all? If you’ve been faking orgasms with your boyfriend or husband, you need to fess up — after all, the only way to get orgasms is to be honest about what does and doesn’t work for you. You know all this, right? [...]

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Your Call: How Do I Tell Him I Don’t Like His Weight Gain?

Monday, November 3, 2014

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photo via IMDB We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. ¬† Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service!   Dear Em & Lo, My husband and [...]

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What It Means When a Man Won’t Cuddle or Hold Hands

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If the guy I’ve started dating recently isn’t into cuddling or hand-holding, is that automatically a sign that he’s just not that into me, or are some guys just not into private or public displays of affection, no matter [...]

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Your Call: Should She Stay or Should She Go?

Thursday, October 16, 2014

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. We seem to be getting a lot of bad boyfriend letters lately — maybe these women just need to hear [...]

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How to Tell If Your Partner Is Emotionally Abusing You

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

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by YourTango  |  photo via flickr Is it possible that you are being abused and not even know it? Abuse is not always as obvious as being hit or shoved, called degrading names or cussed out. In fact, it can very well be underhanded or subtle. You may find yourself feeling confused about the relationship, [...]

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Comment of the Week: Communicate or Cut Him Loose!

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

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photo via Flickr This week, ¬†our favorite comment came from TK in response to the “Your Call: The Relationship Is Great, the Sex Not So Much.” We love it when our readers deliver tough love so eloquently!: Most people who write in to advice columnists “know” the answer already. You may love this guy to [...]

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10 Worst Things About Married Sex

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

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Before Midnight Before all the married people out there take offense, we should note that we are both married, and happily so. We’re not curmudgeons; we already listed the 10 Best Things About Married Sex¬†–¬†and for the record, those ten things were way easier to come up with!¬†– but we believe firmly in looking at [...]

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5 Ways the Meyer Briggs Test Can Improve Your Relationship

Thursday, September 25, 2014

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by YourTango  |  photo via flickr Having different personality types affects your relationship more than you realize. Are you like me? In a relationship with someone vastly different from you? Whenever I am planning a trip, I start thinking about what I am going to pack at least three weeks ahead of time. I have [...]

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