Em & Lo's RSS Feed Em & Lo's Daily Email Feed Be Our Facebook Friend! Follow Us on Twitter!

Halloween on Amazon

Buy on Amazon Kindle!

Good Vibes Bat Crop

LEVI's on Amazon


Tag Archive | "Communication"

What It Means When a Man Won’t Cuddle or Hold Hands

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

0 Comments

photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If the guy I’ve started dating recently isn’t into cuddling or hand-holding, is that automatically a sign that he’s just not that into me, or are some guys just not into private or public displays of affection, no matter [...]

Continue reading...

Your Call: Should She Stay or Should She Go?

Thursday, October 16, 2014

5 Comments

photo via Flickr We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. We seem to be getting a lot of bad boyfriend letters lately — maybe these women just need to hear [...]

Continue reading...

How to Tell If Your Partner Is Emotionally Abusing You

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

2 Comments

by YourTango  |  photo via flickr Is it possible that you are being abused and not even know it? Abuse is not always as obvious as being hit or shoved, called degrading names or cussed out. In fact, it can very well be underhanded or subtle. You may find yourself feeling confused about the relationship, [...]

Continue reading...

Comment of the Week: Communicate or Cut Him Loose!

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

0 Comments

photo via Flickr This week, ¬†our favorite comment came from TK in response to the “Your Call: The Relationship Is Great, the Sex Not So Much.” We love it when our readers deliver tough love so eloquently!: Most people who write in to advice columnists “know” the answer already. You may love this guy to [...]

Continue reading...

10 Worst Things About Married Sex

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

0 Comments

Before Midnight Before all the married people out there take offense, we should note that we are both married, and happily so. We’re not curmudgeons; we already listed the 10 Best Things About Married Sex¬†–¬†and for the record, those ten things were way easier to come up with!¬†– but we believe firmly in looking at [...]

Continue reading...

5 Ways the Meyer Briggs Test Can Improve Your Relationship

Thursday, September 25, 2014

0 Comments

by YourTango  |  photo via flickr Having different personality types affects your relationship more than you realize. Are you like me? In a relationship with someone vastly different from you? Whenever I am planning a trip, I start thinking about what I am going to pack at least three weeks ahead of time. I have [...]

Continue reading...

Do Guys Really Care If Their Girlfriend Has a Higher Body Count?

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

3 Comments

photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Does the average hetero guy really care if his girlfriend/wife has had sex with more people than he has? And if so, why? Straight Married Guy (Jamie): I may be somewhat in the minority here in that, while I [...]

Continue reading...

Comment of the Week: Missing My Wife Is Not “Immature”

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

0 Comments

photo via flickr Reader Stephen wrote the following in response to our post, “Your Call ‚Äď Why Is My Husband Jealous of My Female Friendships?” I struggle with this as well. I too am over the age of 50, and don‚Äôt consider it ‚Äúacting like a 3 year old‚ÄĚ. After 20 years of marriage and [...]

Continue reading...

Dear Em & Lo: How Great Should First-Time Sex with a New Partner Be?

Thursday, April 24, 2014

0 Comments

photo via Flickr Dear Em and Lo, I was married for 20 years and now I am not.¬† I’m not crying in my soup (is that the term?). I’ve learned a lot about what makes for a crappy relationship and bad sex. And I have gained a sense of humor, sexual confidence and a pretty [...]

Continue reading...

The Three Make-or-Break Issues In Every Relationship

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

0 Comments

Reader Blah Blah Blacksheep (best username ever, by the way!) said the following in response to our post Your Call ‚Äď He‚Äôs Kinky, She‚Äôs Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed? Money, sex, and kids are the three make-or-break things in every relationship. A spender will have a hard time being with a saver. Two dominants or [...]

Continue reading...