A few weeks ago, Pete had some interesting (and some potentially controversial) thoughts in response to our post”If Men Ask About Their Size, Can I Tell Him the Truth?” His answer? Basically, “Yes, tell him the truth gently, with helpful tips thrown in.” Recently reader Dave took a wee exception to this:
Well you ONLY tell him the truth if it is THE truth….meaning if you love his cock and it gives you great satisfaction then TELL HIM. But if it’s not quite right, or if it’s smaller than other men then you LIE.
Why you ask? Because most people are not skillful enough with their language to speak the truth and not make the other person feel badly about themselves.
The mere fact that he’s asking you this question means he’s feeling a bit insecure. You’re walking in a minefield at this moment and you better be very mindful of where you step…in other words you need to be very mindful of what you say and how you say it.
Now let’s flip this around and make it about a woman asking if you find her tits attractive or if they are big enough to satisfy you? If they aren’t all that attractive or if they are not as big as you would like…do you think there is ANY WAY you could tell her the truth!? No, of course not! And you’d be a total fool to try and think you could in any way shape or form tell her the truth. You simply lie and say they look sexy and you absolutely love the size of them, the feel of them, how great they feel in your hands and in your mouth.
So ladies: answer him the way you’d want him to answer you. Pretty simple, isn’t it! 🙂