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Tag Archive | "Friendship"

Dream Interpretation: I Kiss My Friend on the Lips – Does This Mean I’m Bi?

Thursday, March 21, 2013

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photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I had this dream about one of my girl friends, and [...]

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The 25 Rules of the Booty Call

Wednesday, November 7, 2012


photo via Flickr Most people don’t talk about booty calls. That’s part of their appeal: “We don’t have to endlessly com-mu-ni-cate because we’re not in a serious relationship.” People rely on a tacit understanding when it comes to casual sex with their friends and neighbors, and especially their exes. But it’s silly to assume that [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Know Whether Their Male Friends Are Circumcised?

Tuesday, August 14, 2012


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do guys ever discuss circumcision with each other? Do you tend to know whether your guy friends are circumcised or not?” To ask the guys your own question, click here.   Gay Single Guy (Justin Huang): Gross. I don’t know whether any of my [...]

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Wise Guys: Can Straight Men and Women Be Friends?

Tuesday, May 8, 2012


Advice from three of EM & LO‘s guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “What’s your take on the When Harry Met Sally truism that men and women who are single and who find each other attractive can’t simply be friends?” Straight Single Guy (Tyler Barnett): I could go on and on about the many [...]

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Wise Guys: Should a Woman Be Worried About Her Boyf’s Close Female Friends?

Tuesday, February 28, 2012


photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Should a woman be worried if her boyfriend has tons of very close female friends?“ To ask the guys your own question, click here. Married Straight Guy (Jake): On the contrary, I think a man with many close female friends shows that he [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Why Do Guy Friends Keep Falling for Me?

Wednesday, February 16, 2011


Dear Em & Lo, How does one gracefully say “Thanks, but no thanks”? It seems to happen a lot to me: I treat the guy like a friend — meaning I don’t make innuendo (no puns please!) nor banter, etc., I just converse fercrissake! — and a few weeks (or months, or hours) later he’s [...]

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Your Call: What’s the Etiquette for Joining Ongoing Sex?

Friday, January 14, 2011


photo by stepheye We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. We’re not convinced [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Man Crushes Really Exist?

Tuesday, December 21, 2010


photo by permanently_scatterbrained Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Do straight guys ever have innocent “crushes” on other guys, like girls sometimes do with other girls?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Engaged Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): I don’t understand straight men [...]

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Wise Guys – How Much Do Men Dish About Sex with Their Friends?

Tuesday, September 21, 2010


photo by elsie esq Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How much detail do guys go into with their friends about their sex lives?“ Straight Single Guy (Chris): In my experience, men brag about sex, or a partner’s sexual skills, but very rarely go into any detail. From [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, Is Physical Attraction in Friendship a Gift or a Curse?

Friday, August 20, 2010


photo by Vivian Chen Dear Em & Lo, Is physical attraction a gift or a curse? I’m writing this because a friend and I have been friends for a year. Let’s just say we’ve had our share of up and downs. From us being friends with benefits to helping him deal with his crazy ex-girlfriend. I [...]

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