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6 Questions to Ask Yourself BEFORE Confessing Your Love to Your BFF

Friday, March 20, 2015

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We all know how it goes. Sometimes, we want the things we can’t have. It’s hard when you think you’re fine being just friends with someone, but once they change their Facebook status to “In a relationship”, you realize you’re not as happy for them as you should be. Falling in¬†love¬†is sometimes messy‚ÄĒamazingly messy. It’s [...]

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10 Easy Ways to Be More Romantic

Friday, March 20, 2015

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photo via Flickr Romance is contagious. So the best way to get your guy or gal to be more romantic is to be more romantic with them first. Here are 10 not-too-arduous ways to do just that. 1. Wax nostalgic. Ninety-eight percent of romance is remembering not to take each other for granted. So tap into long-lost [...]

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A Professional Escort’s 10 Rules for a Threeway That Won’t Backfire

Thursday, March 12, 2015

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by Miss Jolene Dubois for YourTango I’m a¬†professional prostitute.¬†Personally, I’ve had at least 15 to 20 threesomes with different¬†couples¬†as well as my own boyfriends, plus one drunken gang-bang. In short, I’m quite experienced with the more popular version of threesomes (two girls, one guy), which gives me ample expertise on sharing with you, the reader, [...]

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3 Easy(ish) Steps to Sharing a Fantasy with a Partner

Friday, March 6, 2015

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Sharing a fantasy with a partner can be a cheap and easy way to foster intimacy, build trust, and kink things up. But it takes a lot of courage to do. What if you think yours is too mundane to put into words (remember Meg Ryan’s faceless stranger fantasy in¬†When Harry Met Sally?). Or what [...]

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Top 10 Signs You’re Reading Bad Erotica

Friday, February 20, 2015

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Years ago,¬†we popped our sex-writing cherries at Nerve.com, the online magazine about sex that featured impressive original fiction by the likes of Jay McInerney and Rick Moody. As young, na√Įve, and underpaid Internet employees, one of our duties included trudging through the slush pile‚ÄĒthat four-foot-high stack of unsolicited submissions by amateur writers who thought they [...]

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How to Spank Like Christian Grey

Friday, February 13, 2015

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The following is an excerpt from the “S” section of our A-Z book,¬†150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts.¬†The book is on sale now! Spanking is hand-to-tush contact, which many consider more intimate and less scary than any other type of¬†flagellation. [...]

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An Antidote for Feeling Fifty Shades of Blah in the Bedroom

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

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If the upcoming¬†Fifty Shades movie is making you feel like your own sex life is a little drab in comparison — just a single shade of grey, as it were — then we are prescribing you a dose of the video above, “50 Shades of Pleasure,” made by¬†Trojan with our hilarious director friend Laura Murphy, [...]

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How to Hardware (Un)Like Christian Grey

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

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The following is an excerpt from the “H” section of our A-Z book,¬†150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts.¬†The book is on sale now in both paperback and Kindle form! A hardware store is a one-stop shopping center for all your¬†BDSM¬†needs. [...]

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10 Simple Steps to “Fiftyize” Your Love Life

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

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Here’s a nifty little 10-step program for introducing BDSM into the bedroom, inspired by our book,¬†150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink:   1. Talk Dirty to Him Bringing up BDSM¬†with your partner can be shocking and awkward. A great way to test a fantasy is to incorporate it into¬†dirty talk. Whisper in [...]

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The Top 5 Writing Lessons of “Fifty Shades of Grey”

Friday, February 6, 2015

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According to Wikipedia, the¬†Fifty Shades of Grey¬†series “has sold over 100 million copies worldwide and been translated into 52 languages,¬†and set a record in the United Kingdom as the fastest-selling paperback of all time.”¬†Not only has it introduced many people to the world of kink, it’s given them a lesson in how¬†not¬†to write. And if [...]

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