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Tag Archive | "How To"

How to Hardware (Un)Like Christian Grey

Wednesday, February 11, 2015

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The following is an excerpt from the “H” section of our A-Z book,¬†150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink. Every bolded word below indicates an entry in our encyclopedia of sorts.¬†The book is on sale now in both paperback and Kindle form! A hardware store is a one-stop shopping center for all your¬†BDSM¬†needs. [...]

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10 Simple Steps to “Fiftyize” Your Love Life

Tuesday, February 10, 2015

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Here’s a nifty little 10-step program for introducing BDSM into the bedroom, inspired by our book,¬†150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink:   1. Talk Dirty to Him Bringing up BDSM¬†with your partner can be shocking and awkward. A great way to test a fantasy is to incorporate it into¬†dirty talk. Whisper in [...]

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The Top 5 Writing Lessons of “Fifty Shades of Grey”

Friday, February 6, 2015

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According to Wikipedia, the¬†Fifty Shades of Grey¬†series “has sold over 100 million copies worldwide and been translated into 52 languages,¬†and set a record in the United Kingdom as the fastest-selling paperback of all time.”¬†Not only has it introduced many people to the world of kink, it’s given them a lesson in how¬†not¬†to write. And if [...]

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How to Use a Flogger Like Christian Grey

Thursday, February 5, 2015

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The following is from our very own naughty dictionary,¬†150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink.¬†Bolded words signify individual entries that appear elsewhere in the A-to-Z section of the book. Anything with a tie icon ¬†indicates an activity or prop mentioned in the¬†Fifty Shades¬†series (symbolic of the famous woven tie¬†Christian Grey¬†uses to restrain¬†Anastasia Steele). [...]

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“150 Shades of Play” Is on Kindle for Valentine’s Day!

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

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Our latest book, now available in a discreet Kindle edition We get it: 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink is not necessarily the book you want to be caught reading on the bus, or during your lunch break, and it’s definitely not the book you want sitting on your nightstand when your [...]

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10 Ways Blizzards Are Good for Your Love Life

Monday, January 26, 2015

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photo via Flickr It’s Snowmegeddon! Batten down the hatches! Get the gas for the generators! Scratch the eyes out of the mom at the grocery store grabbing the last of the organic milk! And then take a deep breath, relax, and look at the beautiful snow from another perspective: namely, from a place of love. [...]

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10 Journal Prompts to Help You Get Over a Breakup

Tuesday, January 20, 2015

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photo via flickr Two recent articles in the New York Times¬†(here and here) discussed the benefits of writing things down to help you move on from a difficult situation. An aversion to exercise, for example, or trouble fitting in at a new job, or — the situation we hear about most often at EMandLO.com — [...]

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4 Ways to Make Your Marriage Last in the 21st Century

Thursday, January 15, 2015

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by Gwendolyn Bond-Upson for YourTango | photo via flickr Did you know that the rate of¬†infidelity¬†in American marriages has not increased in 20 years, even though attitudes toward¬†adultery¬†have loosened in the past 40? More facts, in addition to tips for success are included in the University of Virginia’s¬†National Marriage Project’s annual report “The State of [...]

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How to Organize Your Ex Out of Your Life

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

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The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo The two of us basically share a brain when it comes to this blog, and we are one hundred percent united on all the important issues in life, love, and dating: safe sex, orgasms for everyone, the superiority of flat-front pants, etc. But every now and [...]

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How to Write a Love Letter Like Georgia O’Keeffe

Friday, December 12, 2014

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“Blue Flower,” 1918 We’re not surprised in the slightest to discover that Georgia A-Flower-Is-Never-Just-a-Flower O’Keeffe was quite the steamy letter writer. Her love letters to the (ahem, married-at-the-time)¬†photographer and modern art promoter¬†Alfred Stieglitz were¬†published as¬†part of an exhibit at the Whitney Museum of American Art¬† a few years back. The two married eventually, and Stieglitz [...]

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