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Tag Archive | "Sexism"

Why No Blowjobs Can Be a Dealbreaker for Men

Wednesday, October 22, 2014


photo via flickr Last week we published reader Sara’s impassioned comment about blowjobs, and how they are not an inalienable right. This week, we are publishing two responses to her by two of our equally thoughtful, passionate, intelligent male readers, Derek and Steve. Can we just say how much we love that a debate like [...]

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An Open Letter to Our Readers About That Football & Rape Piece

Tuesday, October 21, 2014


photo via Flickr Dear Readers (Robert in particular), Our recent post, Is Football More Important Than Rape, syndicated by us from YourTango and written by Charles J. Orlando, ignited one of the most spirited and thoughtful debates EMandLO.com has had in a long time. The first response came from Robert, a long-time reader, now (sniff) [...]

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Is Football More Important Than Rape?

Friday, October 17, 2014


by Charles J. Orlando for YourTango ¬†| ¬†photo via flickr It’s time to actually #blamejameis and those who enable him. Mr. Winston: I’ve been following your college football career at Florida State University as quarterback for the Seminoles. You have an incredible arm, and your insight into a defense’s secondary is enviable. You’re a Heisman [...]

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Battle of the Sexists: “Blurred Lines” VS. “Rude”

Tuesday, September 16, 2014


During this, the last official week of summer, we thought we’d compare this year’s “Song of Summer” with last year’s official hit to see which would win the title of “Most Offensive.” For the sake of argument, we’re calling “Blurred Lines” by Robin Thicke the winner of 2013 (though it was pretty much a tie [...]

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Why Lo Won’t Watch “Game of Thrones” Anymore

Monday, June 9, 2014


Lo wanted to pen a smart, thoughtful piece on all the serious, misogynistic, pro-rapey problems with “Game of Thrones” that have made it unwatchable for her, but after reading Bethany Jones’ piece¬†‘Game of Thrones,’ Sex and HBO: Where Did It Go Wrong For TV’s Sexual Pioneers? over at Indewire’s “/bent” blog last week, there was [...]

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Highlights from #YesAllWomen

Wednesday, May 28, 2014


The Twitterstorm known as #YesAllWomen that’s blown up over the past week — in response to both the misogyny-fueled killing spree at UCSB last Friday and the misguided hashtag “NotAllMen” that took off shortly thereafter — has shined a bright light on how much more work needs to be done dismantling idealogical sexism. Here’s a [...]

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Does Enjoying Anal Play Mean You’re Gay?

Friday, May 16, 2014

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Something we here an awful lot around these here parts is the concern many straight men have with receiving — and, heaven forbid, enjoying — a little backdoor attention. Just this week we got another comment on the topic: My boyfriend has recently discovered he likes me lubing him up and fingering his anus, rimming [...]

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What Kind of Feminist Are You: Miley, Beyonce, or Pharrell?

Thursday, May 1, 2014

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Time magazine just announced its list of the top 100¬†most influential people,¬†declaring this to be “the year of pop feminism.” Their evidence? The lyrics, quotes, and attitude of Beyonc√©, Pharrell (“Blurred Lines” notwithstanding)… and Miley Cyrus. “Beyonc√©, Miley and Pharrell aren‚Äôt just accidental feminists,” according to Time. “They‚Äôve actively promoted women‚Äôs empowerment through their songs, [...]

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Losing It: How We Popped Our Cherry Over the Last 80 Years

Friday, April 11, 2014


Author Kate Monro has managed to make us jealous of¬†her¬†job: searching the world for first-time tales that don’t often get told. In her new book, “Losing It: How We Popped Our Cherry Over the Past 80 Years,” she picks up where Nancy Friday left off, letting a wide range of people — from a 90-year-old [...]

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That Pesky C-Word

Thursday, March 20, 2014


‚ÄúThe ultimate sexist put-down: the prick which lies down on the job. The ultimate weapon in the war between the sexes: the limp prick. The banner of the enemy’s encampment: the prick at half-mast. The symbol of the apocalypse: the atomic warhead prick which self-destructs. That was the basic inequity which could never be righted: [...]

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