We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.

Dear Em & Lo,

I live in NYC, recently started online dating, and I’d like to get your input on how to navigate through it wisely. I feel that when you start seeing someone, before you become intimate with him, you should become exclusive. At least in an ideal world, things should go that way, right? However, intimacy usually comes to the picture before you get to know that person well enough to even bring up the exclusivity thing. On the other hand, being intimate with someone and then seeing him online the day after is not a good thing either. Looks like a vicious circle to me. So how should a girl navigate the online dating waters?

— Getting Personals

What should G.P. do? Let her know in the comments below.