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Blog Snog: How Tae Kwon Do, Bulimia & Fantasies Can Affect Sex

photo by ivan cabrera TresSugar: 4 tips for watching porn. Eden Fantasys’ Sexis: How eating disorders can damage your sexuality. Tomfoolery: 5 love lessons from Tae Kwon Do. College Candy: 10 things college girls wish college guys would do more. YourTango: One of you wants a pre-nup, the other doesn’t. Lemondrop: What’s it’s like to […]

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Books: You Say Tomato, I Say Shut Up

When we reviewed the book The Husbands and Wives Club: A Year in the Life of a Couples Therapy Group a few weeks back, we wrote: “Here are five couples who reject — albeit under the firm hand of a skilled therapist — the notion that there are only two acceptable narratives when it comes […]

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Little Girls Do "Single Ladies" and Our Inner Gloria Steinems Weep

Wrong. This is just plain wrong. Think “Little Miss Sunshine” — except this is real life. We really hate agreeing with Fox News (it’s like one of the signs of the coming Apocalypse), but 8 year old girls should not be dressed up in sexy Pussy Cat Doll outfits and then taught how to gyrate and bump and grind in moves evocative of […]

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Blog Snog: Kissing, Players, and Summer Flings

photo by © LOVE © Eden Fantasys: Nina Hartley on what to avoid when locking lips. YourTango: 10 signs you’re dating a player. LemonDrop: A three-step guide to having a filthy summer fling. CollegeCandy: Should you admit to cheating? TresSugar: Robbing the cradle may shorten your life. TheFrisky: What his favorite sexual position says about him. […]

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Geekiest Marriage Proposal Ever

Warning: only hardcore nerds — or those with a soft spot for hardcore nerds — will find this YouTube footage (below) touching. Game designer Anders Howard, with the help of his friends, designed a video game to propose to his girlfriend Steffany; he got friends and family together for a launch event of the game […]

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What We Talk About When We Talk About Boobs, Part 2

On Monday here we introduced the book Uncovered by Jordan Matter, and featured four of the women in the book. Today we feature four more portraits and interviews. Em & Lo: How did you two end up taking part in this photo shoot? Mike: I heard about the project somewhat based on my working as […]

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Christina Aguilera Replaces "Vajayjay" with "Woohoo"

We’re predicting the big pop hit of the summer is here — and it’s a going to be an anthem for girls nights out all over the country. For Christina Aguilera’s new song “Woohoo” featuring Nicki Minaj (from her album Bionic out this June) is all about the joys of cunnilingus. Best line ever: “All […]

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What We Talk About When We Talk About Boobs

We have to admit, when we first heard about Jordan Matter’s book Uncovered — topless portraits of more than 80 normal women (i.e. not models), all shot in public in NYC — we were cynical. First of all, it’s hard to get past the fact that Jordan Matter is a dude, who spent six years […]

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Blog Snog: Skinny Jeans Don't Mean "Rape Me"

photo by CastawayVintage.com Lemondrop explains why skinny jeans don’t give a guy the right to rape the wearer. Your Tango, in honor of Mother’s Day, presents their top 15 posts about motherhood. Edenfantasys’ Bloggess confronts the myth of the elegant-looking vagina. Tomfoolery has 5 products that will “save” your relationship. The Frisky covers Ms. Magazine‘s […]

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Top 10 Songs About Bad Sex

There are plenty of bad songs about sex — and we’re guessing that they’re in heavy rotation when any cast member of Jersey Shore hooks up. But there are some truly excellent songs about bad sex. Here are a few lyric excerpts from some of our favorites (with thanks to our readers on Facebook and Twitter for help compiling this; although […]

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"Seduce Me" – The Spawn of Isabella Rossellini's "Green Porno"

SEDUCE ME, a new five-part original series directed, written by and starring Isabella Rossellini, recently launched over on SUNfiltered. Her original kooky web series GREEN PORNO examined how animals mate; this time she’s exploring how animals seduce each other. The series trailer is above; each of the new episodes is linked to below: Bedbug – […]

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Blog Snog: Intellectual Matches, Plane Sex and Getting Hubby in the Mood

photo by Akash_Kurdekar YourTango: Does intellectual compatibility matter? Sexis: Advice for women whose husbands just aren’t that into sex. TresSugar: Would you want to talk to the Other Woman? Tomfoolery: How to give a great wedding speech. TheFrisky: Why airplane sex is the lamest fantasy ever. CollegeCandy: Can college roommates be more than just roommates? LemonDrop: […]

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Blog Snog: The Double Standard of "The Notebook" et al

College Candy: A fan of ‘The Notebook” wisely asks, “Why is passionately pursuing the one you love “romantic” when guys do it, but “crazy” when girls do it?“ YourTango: 10 eco-friendly date ideas. Lemondrop: A script of an episode from “Law & Order: One Night Stand Unit.” TresSugar: How to survive being a bridesmaid. TheFrisky: […]

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Blog Snog: Bromance, Matchmaking and Childhood Crushes

photo via IMDB Tomfoolery: What’s the Straight Guy Friend Equivalent of Going All the Way? Sexis: Just How Tough IS It, Being a Straight Guy? CollegeCandy: The 5 Douchiest Ways to Dump Someone Lemondrop: IUD, the Birth Control No One’s Heard Of YourTango: 9 Signs You’re a Good Matchmaker TresSugar: Questions to Ask Yourself Before a Friend […]

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Books: The Husbands and Wives Club

Before we started reading The Husbands and Wives Club: A Year in the Life of a Couples Therapy Group by Laurie Abraham (based on this NYT mag cover story), we had a number of preconceived notions. (1) Okay, so other people’s therapy might be interesting when Gabriel Byrne plays the therapist on HBO, but real-life […]

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Blog Snog: Bunny BS, Pre-Date Googling, and Kink 101

From the Frisky: A thoughtful (yet still depressing) explanation of why young women wear Playboy Bunny tees. From SexIs: A day in the life of a funny sex blogger (Japanese sex dungeons? Check! BJ robots? Check! PTSD? Check!). From Lemondrop: 5 signs you’re married to your partner (even if you’re not) — picking their bacne […]