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Blog Snog: How Bridget Jones Changed the Landscape for Women

The Frisky: How Bridget Jones changed the landscape for women. YourTango: How to get differing sex drives in sync. How About We: How to improve your relationship using empathy. Nerve: Why I won’t share my relationship status online. Pop Sugar: Michael Fassbender’s guide to seduction (in GIFs). 150 Shades of Play: Top 10 Timely Halloween […]

Dear Em & Lo
Top 10 Questions We Hope Nobody Ever Has to Ask Us Again

We recently published a list of the top 25 questions we get asked over and over again. We’ll probably keep answering those sorts of questions until we’re old and wrinkly and everyone thinks it’s either cute or hilarious or gross (or all of the above) that two old biddies like us discuss porn and strap-ons […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: You CAN Handle the Truth!

  If you know us, you know that we are not averse to a little self promotion now and then, nor are we immune to flattery — in fact, it will get you everywhere. Hence, a little positive reinforcement of a short but sweet note we got recently validating all we do around these here […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: My Wife Won’t Try Anything New in Bed

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section. Dear Em & Lo, My wife and I […]

Horoscopes
Your Weekly Horoscopes: 10-14-13

photo by Simply Schmoopie Each week, we at EMandLO.com predict the course of your love life for the week with our own version of irreverent horoscopes — ignore our advice at your own peril! (Hyperbole intended for dramatic effect.)  aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) It’s a common human trait to expect life to be good and to be easy. It’s […]

Say Amything
Confession: My Husband Has No Penis

Amy Bronwen Zemser — “writer, squirrel hunter, breastfeeder, homosexual” — just launched her new, provocative blog, AmyBronwenZemser.com. We have the honor of publishing an abridged version of one of her recent hilarious posts about coming out, homophilia, and cases of mistaken sexual identity (read the unabridged version here). Enjoy! *** I’ll tell you a secret. I […]

News
Happy Federal Holiday!

In honor of Columbus Day, we’re taking the day off and reading Eduardo Galeano’s Memory of Fire. Tune in tomorrow for new horoscopes and other fun stuff.

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Audio Smut to Make Terry Gross and Ira Glass Blush

photo via flickr Public radio isn’t exactly known for turning up the heat — unless you have some kind of fetish regarding audible mouth noises or endearing speech defects, or you like to rub one out imagining Terry Gross or Ira Glass talking dirty to you. A (new to us) show out of Canada called […]

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Blog Snog: How I Tried to Break Bad After a Breakup

  The Frisky: 11 creative Halloween costume ideas for your penis (NSFW, duh). Nerve: How a breakup inspired my attempt at Breaking Bad. YourTango: 6 valuable lessons from one-night stands. PopSugar: Confessions of a romance novel cover girl. How About We: 5 awesome Halloween date ideas.

Confessions
Comment of the Week: BDSM Is More About Trust Than Ropes & Chains

Sutra Chainlink Cuffs by LELO Reader sex_is_weird_thats_all said the following in response to our post, “Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies, Too?” Despite the people who end up in the news, there is usually in any metropolitan area a very legit BDSM community. I have a group of friends that includes a sizable chunk […]

Pop Culture
A New Book That Some People Don’t Want You to Read (Part 2)

a still from the video trailer of Happyland Last week, we posted a provocative excerpt from HAPPYLAND, written by one of the coolest authors we know, J. ROBERT LENNON. The excerpt was from his new novel, the one that W. W. Norton pulled from production in 2005 over fears of libel, that Harper’s Magazine ran in serial […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: How Does She Proposition Her Professor After Graduation?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section. Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New […]

Pop Culture
The Best Dirty #AddAWordRuinAMovie Tweets

One of the funniest hashtags in a while took over Twitter this past weekend. Here are some of the best sex- and love-related ones. Enjoy! Jonathon Winter’s Bone #addawordruinamovie #RIP — The_Soleless_Ginger (@fish_on_frizzle) October 7, 2013   #AddaWordRuinaMovie Charlotte’s Web Cam — ★☆Derrick Brew Jr☆★ (@DBrewJr) October 7, 2013   He’s Just Not Putting That […]

Horoscopes
Your Weekly Horoscopes: 10-07-2013

photo by Simply Schmoopie Each week, we at EMandLO.com predict the course of your love life for the week with our own version of irreverent horoscopes — ignore our advice at your own peril! (Hyperbole intended for dramatic effect.)  aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) Eeny, meeny, miney, moe, which one to shag, which one to let go? Before you go making […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Banged My Boss!

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I only hangout with people I work with — mostly guys who are 8 […]

Music
POLL: Who’s Right About Miley – Sinead O’Conner OR Amanda Palmer?

When Miley Cyrus said her “Wrecking Ball” video (in which she cries into the camera, before getting it on with a wrecking ball and a sledgehammer) was inspired by Sinead O’Connor‘s classic and subtle “Nothing Compares 2 U” video (that title is pre-texting!), O’Conner wrote an open letter to Miley, warning her that’s she’s being […]