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How Technology Fixes Fairy Tales

While Em was reading her daughter a bedtime story the other night, it occurred to her — because she has read the same stories hundreds of times and thus it is possible to think about potential posts for this blog while reading — that a swift exchange of contact info would have been a much […]

How To
KEGEL WEEK: How to Do Kegels (for HIM)

Yesterday we went over the anatomy of your genital muscles and introduced you to the man who invented Kegels. Today, gentlemen, we instruct you on how to actually do the strengthening exercises. The following is excerpted from our first sex manual, The Big Bang: KEGELS FOR HIM Regular kegel exercises are a way to bond with […]

How To
KEGEL WEEK: How To Do Kegels (for HER)

  Yesterday we went over the anatomy of your genital muscles and introduced you to the man who invented Kegels. Today, we instruct you, ladies, on how to actually do the strengthening exercises. (Guys, you’re up next.) The following is excerpted from our first sex manual, The Big Bang: KEGELS FOR HER Not only do defined […]

Pop Culture
A “Beautiful Body” Project Celebrates Hot Mamas

photo by Jade Beall Because all mamas are hot in their own way. Photographer Jade Beall‘s new project “A Beautiful Body”invites mothers, both new and old, to celebrate their imperfectly perfect bodies. In a world of airbrushing, Photo Shop and self-loathing, how refreshing! In the coming year she’ll be hitting the road with her now five-month-old son, […]

How To
KEGEL WEEK: An Introduction to Your Pelvic Floor Muscles (Meet Mr. Kegel)

  The following is excerpted from our first sex manual, The Big Bang: We don’t care if you’ve never been to a gym in your life; you simply must work out your pelvic muscles if you want to consider yourself sexually fit. Don’t worry, you won’t break a sweat. You can even start working them […]

Research
Just How Different Are Men’s and Women’s Fantasy Lives?

Are women’s and men’s fantasy lives vastly different, or are they basically the same except for a few variations on theme and frequency? We suppose it depends on who you ask and what they believe. Because people’s prior beliefs about how women and men approach sex can really affect the way they interpret research on […]

Polls
KEGEL WEEK: Men-Only Poll — What Do You Know About Kegels?

Men, what do you know about Kegel exercises? RELATED ARTICLES FROM EMandLO.com Ladies-Only Poll: How Often Do You Kegel? Dear Dr. Joe, How Do I Strengthen My Erection? Everything You Wanted to Know About Kegels But Were Too Lazy to Ask How to Do Kegels (for HER) Kegels for HIM Dear Dr. Vanessa, What’s Up […]

Polls
KEGEL WEEK: Ladies-Only Poll — How Often Do You Kegel?

Ladies, how often do you do your Kegel exercises? RELATED ARTICLES FROM EMandLO.com Everything You Wanted to Know About Kegels But Were Too Lazy to Ask Men-Only Poll: What Do you Know About Kegels? How to Do Kegels (for HER) Kegels for HIM Dear Dr. Vanessa, What’s Up with Kegels? Dear Dr. Joe, How Do […]

News
It’s KEGEL WEEK on EMandLO.com!

  We’re dedicating this entire week to the love, care and workout of your pelvic floor muscles — the body parts of both men and women that, if healthy and strong, can really turn your sexual experience up to 11 with better blood flow, increased libido, more sensation and more intense orgasms. You know, the […]

News
Naked News: Love Is In the Air, From Scotland to North Korea

Okay, so maybe love is a strong word for the North Korean dictator’s marriage. But who knows what goes on behind closed doors? In Scotland, doors might be opening for gay couples who wish to marry. Which is pretty much the last country we would have expected it from (except maybe North Korea… and Iran… […]

Websites
Blog Snog: The “Girly” Things Men Love Secretly Love to Do

image via Flickr College Candy: Men confess the “girly” things they secretly love to do (disclaimer: we don’t think any of them are “girly,” just fun — except for the sleeping with stuffed animals one: that’s just weird whether you’re male or female). Nerve: 5 hard-earned rules for effective Skype sex. TresSugar: 8 romantic films set […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: REAL Men Can Handle Male Nudity

JamesS said the following in response to our post “Wise Guys: Why Do Straight Men Have Such a Problem with Male Nudity?” I’m a straight man and I don’t have a problem with male nudity. Provided the context is right, but that applies to female nudity as well. “Women put up with female nudity in […]

Pop Culture
A Musical History of Wooing Women

CDZA (short for Collective Cadenza) is a group of mostly Juilliard-trained music geeks (and we use that term in the most loving and respectful way) that “creates musical video experiments” — in other words, fun viral vids that play upon all sorts of musical themes and genres (think “Evolution of Dance” but with live musicians and no dancing). […]

Toys
50 Shades of Play: A Guide to the Toys in “Fifty Shades of Grey”

Say what you will about the literary merit of E.L. James’s Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, but you can’t deny the sexual curiosity they’ve ignited, the sexual knowledge they’ve imparted and the sexual delight they’ve given, where most readers are concerned. The result has been a boon for the sex toy industry, thanks to all […]

Dear Em & Lo
5 Ways to Make Sex with the Well-Endowed More Comfortable

Dear Em and Lo, I have recently found that mythical man that every woman wants and movies portray. He’s financially stable, no ex drama, gorgeous (holy crap is he!), very sexy, and very tall (approx 6′ 3″-4″). The latter part of his good qualities is what’s the issue — he’s TALL. Meaning that everything else […]

How To
The Reverse Coital Alignment Technique (or Reverse C.A.T.)

Yesterday we reviewed the Coital Alignment Technique, a sexual position that involves lots of body contact, slow and steady shifting, and a philosophical readjustment toward intercourse — all designed to increase a woman’s chances of orgasm via penile penetration. (Trust us, it’s sexier than that sounds.) Today, we cover how to flip that C.A.T. upside […]