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Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Gagging During Oral — Hot or Not?

photo by Public Domain Photos Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men think about a woman gagging while giving oral sex? How does the fact that it’s a porn trope affect your real life experiences? Is it a turn on or do most men just feel […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretion: I Keep Dreaming of a Same-Sex Crush, But I’m Not Gay

photo by marcogomes Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I am a 48-year-old woman and I keep having these dreams about the same woman. I met her when I […]

Toys
Is That a Lipstick in Your Pocket, Or Are You Just Really Happy?

image via Lelo A lot of the so-called “discreet” sex toys out there don’t exactly live up to their name. Sure, the I Rub My Duckie doesn’t look like a vibrator, but then you’ve still got to explain to your visiting aunt why, past the age of four, you keep a rubber duckie in your […]

Websites
Blog Snog: Celebrities Who Support Planned Parenthood

photo via TresSugar TresSugar: Celebrities who support Planned Parenthood. EdenFantasys’ Sexis: Polyamory for monogamists. MyDaily: Why an open marriage works for me. TheFrisky: Is there a sex toy double standard? YourTango: When your boyfriend cheats on you…with a man. CollegeCandy: Rihanna-inspired S&M tips.

Confessions
Keeping (It) Up with the Joneses: A Multi-Orgasmic Man Tells All

photo by ValtheKid In the first book the two of us wrote together, a sex manual called The Big Bang, we included the throwaway line “multiple orgasms for men — sorry, that’s a whole ‘nother book.” (What can we say, we only had a few hundred pages to work with, and it seemed to us […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Is My Cougar Relationship Doomed?

photo by Harlequeen We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & […]

Vids
It’s Amazing What Our Bodies Can Do

Tempest Freerunning Academy from The Cool Hunter on Vimeo. Man, these people must be amazing in bed. Read the full post on SUNfiltered

How To
Post-Sex Etiquette for the Modern Lover

photo by love janine A good cuddle after a vigorous mating ritual is what separates us from the animals. To suggest that you have personal space issues or are sensitive to over-stimulation after you’ve had your orifices intimately explored is downright rude. A minimum of fifteen minutes of quality embracing/back tickling/hair tousling is in order, […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Joe, What’s the Deal with HPV and Men?

photo via Flickr This week, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, tackles questions about male sexuality. To ask Dr. Joe your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Joe, I am BEYOND confused because none of the information related to HPV seems to focus very much on HPV in men. Once a man has it, […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Lube Is Awesome!

photo by Mike Goren Frannie, commenting on the post “Wise Guys: How Do Men Feel About Lube?”: Lube is awesome. Always. It is never bad. The boy and I both work around 60 hours per week and I really believe the reason busy, exhausted people often avoid sex is because the idea of nuanced, time-consuming […]

How To
The 7 Rules of Dating a Co-Worker

photo via Flickr Sneaking into the unoccupied conference room on your lunch break…leaving dirty Polaroids under each other’s keyboards…doing it on your boss’s desk while he or she is in the Hamptons. Dipping your pen in the company inkwell may not be exactly encouraged in the modern workplace, but most of us have dipped at […]

News
Naked News: Sex Jokes at the Office Can Cause Depression, Slacking

photo by Flickr Sex chat at the water cooler can lead to depression and low productivity, study finds. A Florida boy is pulled from class for wearing high heels. Massive study details top ten Internet sex search terms. Let’s hear it for MILFs and cheating wives Read the rest of this post on SUNfiltered

News
Whatever You Do, Don’t Say Bin Laden Was Hot

photo via Flickr It’s difficult (not to mention crass) to try to tie lust and Osama bin Laden together, but in honor of last night’s historic news we’re gonna do it. A few years ago NPR’s “This American Life” started off an episode about speaking one’s mind in a tough room with a painful yet […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: My Abusive Ex’s Dog Bites Me

photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: My ex boyfriend and I broke up last summer. My ex was abusing drugs, and I was there for him […]

Websites
Blog Snog: The 10th Circle of Hell Is Bra Shopping

photo by jenny downing EdenFantasys’ Sexis: The 10th circle of hell: bra shopping. MyDaily: Sex aids in your spice rack TresSugar: 7 outdoor date ideas Tomfoolery: A ballgame marriage proposal gone wrong TheFrisky: The fine line between romance and creepiness YourTango: 8 steps to an eco-friendly sex life CollegeCandy: Why you shouldn’t feel guilty about […]

Websites
And Now for Something Completely Sexless: 3eanuts

We should probably post something about the royal spectacle wedding, but fuck it. No love or marriage or sex right now. Just existential angst: the genius site 3eanuts.com posts Peanuts comics without the last panel to reveal just how dark and depressing Charles Schulz’s world view really was… Read the rest of this post on […]