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Hi Em & Lo,

I’m 28 years old and have never had an orgasm in my life (not even alone), and I’m pretty okay with that. I’d like to, and am doing what I can about it (I can get very close on my own), but in general it’s not a big concern for me at this point.

However, I’m seeing a new guy, and I love having sex with him, but I worry what he thinks about my lack of orgasm. I’ve explained the situation, and he’s understanding. But won’t a guy get tired of it after a while? Is it possible for guys to get past “giving” their partner an orgasm?

— Enjoying the Journey

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