Dear Dr. Joe: Can I Use the Backdoor with Hemorrhoids?

photo via flickr Every few weeks, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, tackles questions about male sexuality here on EMandLO.com. To ask Dr. Joe your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Joe, Is it safe for me to enjoy receiving anal play if I have hemorrhoids? – Backdoor Bob Dear B.B., I guess the [...]

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Comment of the Week: Strap-Ons Can Bring a Couple Closer

Bend Over Beginner Kit from EdenFantasys.com SJM, responding to the post  ”Confession: I Want to Do My Boyfriend with a Strap-On“: This is something that will make a relationship grow. Plain sex gets old. It took me forever to open up to my gf about how I wanted her to ["plug"] me, or whatever. But [...]

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Comment of the Week: Love + Trust + Strap-On = Good Times for Everyone

Bend Over Beginner Kit available from EdenFantasys.com Yep, the strap-on post continues to rake in the comments! Today’s featured comment is #210 out of a total of 214 (and counting) responses to the original post. (Only another 70 comments or so to go to catch up with the small penis post!) I asked the girlfriend [...]

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The Gentleman’s G-Spot Massager by Lelo

We’re suckers for a decent sex toy, especially if it’s made by Lelo, the Swedish “pleasure objects” company with impeccable taste and an eye for ergonomics. They’ve just come out with a new phthalate-free gizmo for guys — yes, guys — butchly named “Billy” and designed with men’s sensitive little prostate glands in mind. Your friendly [...]

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Strap-on Sex Won’t Turn You Gay (If You Aren’t Already)

bend over beginner kit We usually don’t dignify the crazies with a response, but we just can’t let this one go: For the first time ever, a string of responses by one individual in the comments section of a post on this site got us so infuriated that we’ve decided to dedicate an entire column [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Most Straight Guys Secretly Love Bum Play?

photo by Jo_Jakeman Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: Do most straight guys secretly want to have their bums explored by their girlfriends/wives? Like, even if they don’t admit it, and they’d never ask…deep down, are they curious? Straight Single Guy (L.A. Chris): When they’re together, straight guys [...]

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Confession: I Want to Do My Boyfriend with a Strap-On

photo by brandi666 Our contributor, a woman who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make. My boyfriend’s butt is beautiful. It’s pretty. It’s plump. It fits in the palm of my hand. I can’t keep my hands off it, and simply touching it turns me on. I’ve spanked it, kissed it, rubbed it, [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Help, My Boyfriend Got Intimate with His Travel Toothbrush!

photo by Joe M500 Dear Em and Lo, I have recently gotten my boyfriend interested in anal play (namely his, not mine) and while I think this is a good way to further explore different opportunities for pleasure, he seems to have gone about it in the wrong way. After experimenting with fingers with no [...]

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What’s Up with Male G-Spot?

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