New Spray Helps Men Go Longer (Without Numbing Her)

photo via flickr Until now, any product on the market that was designed to help a man go longer in bed had the highly unfortunate side effect of numbing his female partner in the process. Who really wants sex to last longer if you can’t feel anything? Enter Promescent, a brand new FDA-approved over-the-counter spray for […]

Comment of the Week: Two Solutions to the (Really) Wet Spot

photo via flickr Two readers this week offered solutions to the really wet spot that can result from female ejaculation, in response to our post “Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About Female Ejaculation?” First, reader Ace Card from the blog The Good Sex Life suggests this: My favorite squirting aid is our “Liberator Throe […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Am Drowning in Man Juice!

photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it) This week, a reader asks Lauri: There is no eloquent way to put […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: Is Female Ejaculation a Goal for Straight Men in Bed?

photo via Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Is female ejaculation a goal straight guys try to go for in bed? Or would most guys be surprised — grossed out, even — if it happened?“ To ask the guys your own question, click here. Single Straight Guy (Megan): One sad truth […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: My Boyfriend Is Obsessed with the Money Shot

photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  Dear Em & Lo, I have been dating […]

How To
How to (TRY TO) Female Ejaculate

Okay, before we tell you how to ejaculate, we have to set a couple things straight: First, yes, women can ejaculate. Next: no, not all women ejaculate. So if it doesn’t happen for you, please don’t stress about it or feel like your parts aren’t working properly. The last thing we mean to do is […]

Wise Guys
Comments of the Week: And Another Thing About Facials…

photo by rightee In respons to this week’s Wise Guys installment by Angelo, Johnny and Chris about the appeal of the facial, fellow Wise Guys Figleaf and Mark wanted a piece of the action. Apparently, this is THE week to talk about money shots: Figleaf  January 17th, 2012 at 6:45 pm I’m not even stepping into the […]

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Wise Guys: What’s the Appeal of the Money Shot?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the appeal of the “money shot?“ To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Single Guy (Angelo Nikolopoulos of The White Swallow): For men, the orgasm is the raison d’être of sexual activity, so the money shot—or facial, if you prefer—seems to be the requisite […]

Personal Essays
Confession: A Taste of One’s Own

Max, one of our Wise Guys, has a confession to make: Ladies, face it: After a blow job, your average man would like you to swallow his seed, plain and simple. Whether that’s because of pride, practicality or a penchant for raunchiness may vary from guy to guy, but a lover’s choice of spitting over […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: What Do Men Think About Female Ejaculation?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What do men think about female ejaculation?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Figleaf): Good question but hard to answer. I think the most important thing you can say about female ejaculation is that the best-selling book […]