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Tag Archive | "Fantasy"

Comment of the Week: Four Thoughts on Fantasizing

Wednesday, September 23, 2009


1) I fantasize about other women all the time. All The Time. I’m in a wonderful, committed relationship with a gorgeous woman. I’m able to have my fantasies, and tell her about them — which means that they become part of our relationship. Something that brings us together, rather than something that drives us apart. [...]

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Your Call: Do His Fantasies Mean He’ll Cheat?

Tuesday, September 22, 2009


photo by hyperscholar Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 23-year-old woman who has been in a relationship with my partner for over a year and a half. The sex is good, but I recently found out my partner fantasizes about other women he has seen whilst he has been out with me, or out on [...]

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Your Call: Should You Make a Move on Your Roommate, Who’s Also Your Best Friend’s Sister?

Tuesday, August 25, 2009


photo by adactio Dear Em & Lo, My issue is that I fantasize about sleeping with my best friend’s sister — I have for several years now. I feel I’m a little obsessed about her. She has a boyfriend. The worst part: we share a flat together. Fortunately, she’s out a lot, and when she [...]

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Do It Tonight: Blindfold Your Partner

Friday, August 21, 2009


photo by nyki_m The blindfolds that come free with a transatlantic Virgin flight (oh, really, you shouldn’t have, Richard Branson) are sometimes printed with the phrase “forty winks” — and we think we know what kind of winks they’re talking about. Who hasn’t stuffed a complimentary blindfold into their carry-on and thought, “Ooh, I should [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Vibrator Doesn’t Kiss or Cuddle

Wednesday, August 19, 2009


photo by Ciaran_McGuiggan Dear Em & Lo, I’m a 24-year-old woman who hasn’t had sex in 4 years, 10 months, 15 days, 5 hours, 51 minutes…well, you get the idea. I had my first boyfriend when I was twenty and it lasted for four months. He was my first sexual partner, and as of today, [...]

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Confession: My BF and I Created a Fantasy Suggestion Box

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

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photo by hashmil Our contributor, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: My boyfriend and I used to fuck like bunnies.  And I don’t mean we were cute and cuddly in bed — I mean, we did it like they do on the Discovery Channel.  We couldn’t keep our dirty little paws [...]

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Poll: Which Creature Do You Have the Hots For?

Thursday, May 28, 2009


If you could have sex with one of the following mythical creatures, which would it be:(online surveys) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

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Your Call: Should She Share Her Fantasies?

Tuesday, March 10, 2009


photo by Dierk Schaefer We feel just awful that we can’t answer every single advice question we get, but we figure that any answer is better than no answer at all. Which is why, once a week, we’ll let you guys decide how to advise a reader. Make your call by filling out the poll [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Should I Be Concerned About My Rape Fantasies?

Wednesday, February 25, 2009


photo by Laura Cameron Dear Em & Lo, I’m writing to ask you about your opinion of rape fantasies. I’ve been in a serious and loving relationship with my boyfriend for almost four years now. It’s a very egalitarian, loving, supportive and comfortable relationship. Yet both my boyfriend and I immensely enjoy acting out rape [...]

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Do It Tonight! Have a Pretend Threeway

Friday, February 6, 2009


photo by hyku One of the most common letters we get from men writing into our advice column — right after “How can I safely enlarge my penis?” — is “How can I convince my girlfriend to have a threeway?” Unfortunately, guys, nagging is never going to get her in the mood to invite her [...]

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