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Tag Archive | "Intercourse"

Dear Em & Lo: Am I Being Too Selfish In Bed?

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

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Dear Em & Lo, Every time my boyfriend and I “engage,” he turns me on then asks me to give him a BJ. After I do, I’m not as interested anymore. It happens every time. I’m very uncomfortable when I perform a BJ, and it takes away from the pleasure. I want to know if [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Can I Have an Orgasm in My Sleep (If I Haven’t Had One Awake)?

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, It’s recently come to my attention that women can have orgasms while asleep, similarly to how men can have wet dreams.¬†I was wondering: is it possible to have them before you’ve had an orgasm?¬†As a 19-year old, I sometimes get turned on, but don’t do anything about it [...]

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Comment of the Week: What Porn Gets Wrong About Female Pleasure

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

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photo via flickr Reader grainne said the following in response to our post, “Comment of the Week: How to Get Past His Porn Habit”. We found this point really interesting — that many women are bothered by porn not because they find it offensive, per se, but because they think it misleads men regarding what [...]

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Wise Guys: Which Would You Choose, Intercourse or Oral?

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

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photo via flickr Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If guys had to choose between only intercourse or only blowjobs for the rest of their life, which do you think most guys would choose?” Straight Single Guy (L.A. Chris): I think most guys would choose blowjobs, but they [...]

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10 Steps to Crossing the Finishing Line in Bed Tonight

Friday, June 6, 2014

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One of the most common questions we receive from women is, “How can I orgasm in bed with my partner?” We hear some version of this question at least once a week. The really demanding women want to know how to orgasm simultaneously during penetration, every time. If this is you, then sorry, you’re out [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: How Great Should First-Time Sex with a New Partner Be?

Thursday, April 24, 2014

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photo via Flickr Dear Em and Lo, I was married for 20 years and now I am not.¬† I’m not crying in my soup (is that the term?). I’ve learned a lot about what makes for a crappy relationship and bad sex. And I have gained a sense of humor, sexual confidence and a pretty [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I Got My Period During Sex and Am Mortified

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

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photo by greenchartreuse Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service!   Dear Em & Lo, I recently hooked up with a guy from work, but unfortunately things did not end up well. While we were having sex I got my period and it was brutal. I was so embarrassed that I [...]

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Your Call: Can I Expect Pleasure If My Wife Is in Pain?

Monday, January 13, 2014

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section. Submit Your Own Question to [...]

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Your Call: My Route to Orgasm Is Too Complicated for Husband

Monday, January 6, 2014

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Antique map via Flickr We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. You can leave your advice in the comments section below — for this question in particular, we thought that [...]

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Turkey Cooking Tips For Better Sex

Thursday, November 28, 2013

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photo via Flickr However distasteful it may sound, there are a lot of similarities between cooking turkey and having sex: prepping naked skin, heating things up, getting stuffed, being done — and when you really think about it, they’re both kind of gross. So in honor of the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, we’ve retrofitted the Food [...]

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