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Tag Archive | "Masturbation"

Dream Interpretation: I’m Christian and Chaste But Masturbate in My Dreams

Thursday, December 18, 2014

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photo via WeHeartIt Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst¬†Lauri Loewenberg¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it¬†(18 and older only, please).¬†This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’ve been having the same recurring [...]

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34 Better (Swedish) Terms for Female Masturbation

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

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photo via WeHeartIt We’ve long known that the Swedes do pretty much everything better when it comes to sex. They actually believe that comprehensive early sex education is important, and they even have impressively low rates of teen pregnancy and STDs to back up this crazy “theory.” And they even invented a gender neutral pronoun, [...]

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How to Live a Complete Life Without Sex

Friday, December 5, 2014

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photo via WeHeartIt Dear Em & Lo, I’m 34 and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I was molested as a child and raped as an adult. I’ve never had consensual sex. Yet I have intensely sexual dreams. I’ve had years of counseling, but the fear of having a sexual relationship remains. I isolate myself from [...]

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How to Make Masturbation Feel More Intimate

Friday, October 10, 2014

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photo via flickr We often hear women complain that masturbation just doesn’t do it for them, simply because there’s no man or woman attached to the end of the sex toy. In other words, they want masturbation to provide not just sex, but also intimacy. So, how do you make masturbation feel more intimate? Okay, [...]

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10 Quick Ways to Spice Up Masturbation

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

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We know that masturbation feels like an easy lay, but just because you’re a sure thing, doesn’t mean you always have to treat yourself that way. Here are 10 simple ways to spice up your old routine: Dim the overheads and light some candles Pour yourself a drink Take a long bath (with a nice [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Can I Have an Orgasm in My Sleep (If I Haven’t Had One Awake)?

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

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photo via flickr Dear Em & Lo, It’s recently come to my attention that women can have orgasms while asleep, similarly to how men can have wet dreams.¬†I was wondering: is it possible to have them before you’ve had an orgasm?¬†As a 19-year old, I sometimes get turned on, but don’t do anything about it [...]

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Why Do Men Masturbate When They’re Having Regular Sex?

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

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photo via flickr Wise Guys is a regular column offering advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do men masturbate in relationships, even when the sex is good and regular?” Straight Married Guy (Ben): Every guy has a regular masturbation frequency (RMF) that is more or less unchangeable [...]

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How Fantasizing Can Improve Your Sex Life

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

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Tracey Cox author photo by Daniel Annett The fabulous and funny Tracey Cox from the U.K. is one of our favorite sex writers out there. We’re thrilled to present the following excerpt from her new book,¬†Dare: What Happens When Fantasies Come True, which is available now on Amazon for your Kindle. Tracey’s Dare product range [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Boyfriend Always Chooses Masturbation Over Me

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

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photo via flickr Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, I have been dating my man for over 6 years. For the past 4 yrs, our intercourse has gone from 2x/wk to once every 2 months. He explained to me it’s because he’s tired, he wants to [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I Can’t Keep Up with My Girlfriend’s Libido

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

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photo via flickr Get Personal Advice Publicly on EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and we love each other very much, but she is way more into sex than I am. I try to match her libido but she is still too [...]

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