photo by TheNaughtyAmerican.com An interesting debate among commenters (and in Johnny’s case, with himself) about the good and bad of porn (plus, a lesson in “literature” vs. “research”) from the post “Wise Guys: My Girlfriend Thinks Porn-Viewing Is a Dealbreaker“: Crimsonia Says: October 21st, 2010 at 12:19 pm …the industry is not all about the […]
photo by Victoria Peckham Dear Em & Lo, Lately, my boyfriend and I have been getting into a lot of fights. We’ve just reached the end of our honeymoon phase and we’re starting to get to know each other more and more on everyday terms. Our last really big fight just happened very recently, and […]
photo by tbonetaylor Older women want everyone to stop making such a big deal out of their long gray hair already. High-end escort blogger-slash-Swarthmore student turns out to be middle-aged male government worker in Delaware. Last night MSNBC aired a documentary, narrated by Rachel Maddow, called The Assassination of Dr. Tiller, which looked into whether larger […]
Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the best way to get your boyfriend/husband to dress up for Halloween with you, especially if he’s reluctant?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Matt): I’ve read about women in NYC who trade blowjobs for […]
photo by Lynette 1962 Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’ve been dating my boy for 3 years and I think I love him, but I keep having this […]
A few weeks ago we fondly wrote about the Know Your Meme podcast, and specifically highlighted their coverage of the loveable Antoine Dodson of “Bed Intruder” fame. Well, now he’s got what he (at least) is calling the # 1 Halloween get-up of 2010: The official Bed Intruder Costume! And good for him — why […]
YourTango: 50 couples Halloween costumes (our favorite: Double Rainbow). EdenFantasys’ Sexis: 3 ways to get over a breakup (1st, burn his house down…). CollegeCandy: 8 traits of a great wingwoman for college hook-ups. TresSugar: 10 unsexy Halloween costumes. TheFrisky: Their Girl on Girl Column reflects on all the recent gay bashing: “Yes, some people still […]
Thanks to our friends at Lemondrop (although “thanks” may be the wrong word), we recently discovered Pornkins, “an all new way to spice up your Halloween party” according to the website. It’s pretty weak as far as puns go, and the stencils are pretty unimpressive, artistically speaking. But if you happen to be one of […]
photo by rhys alton One of the most popular and commented-on posts is about strap-on sex. It’s not exactly a point of pride for us. We’re much more about the happy feel-good feminist relationship posts. And we worry that this prominent butt-sex mention is what keeps the advertisers away (of course, it could be the […]
photo by Anika Malone Once a month, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, answers your questions on male sexual health. To ask him your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Joe, I’ve heard that regularly ejaculating (whether via masturbation or sex) can reduce a guy’s risk of prostate cancer –- is that true? — […]
photo by robbie_jim We were surprised by how many of our readers took offense at our Wise Guys’ response to the recent question, “Do Men Care What Labia Look Like?” To our mind, the guys were basically saying, “Love what you got, most men already do, porn ideals be damned.” But apparently that message didn’t […]
We’re the first people to say that avoiding fights completely in a relationship is not a realistic — nor a particularly healthy — goal. In fact, studies have found that couples who can fight passionately but civilly tend to have stronger romantic connections, i.e. their relationships don’t turn platonic as quickly. In other words, it’s […]
photo by bixentro Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,“How common is it for guys imagine someone else while they’re having sex with a partner? Does it depend on the guy? Does it depend on the relationship? How do you think it compares to the rate at which women […]
photo by h.koppdelaney Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’ve been having dreams lately about an actor who I think is attractive. I’m certainly not obsessive about him consciously, […]
A few weeks ago, Craigslist TV (on YouTube) launched their second season of mini-documentaries based on real Craigslist ads. (Watch the trailer for the series here.) If you think reading the ads is great entertainment for inducing second-hand embarrassment, try watching them. Our favorite, of course, is still the first one from the first season, […]
CollegeCandy: 5 days to go from ice to nice TresSugar: How to become a Forbes Most Powerful Woman. EdenFantasys’ Sexis: Deep Throat — the Musical. Seriously. TheFrisky: Googling a crush and finding out the very worst. LemonDrop: Are you a comfort creature or a thrill seeker in bed? YourTango: Helping others in their relationships might […]
photo by TheNaughtyAmerican.com An interesting debate among commenters (and in Johnny’s case, with himself) about the good and bad of porn (plus, a lesson in “literature” vs. “research”) from the post “Wise Guys: My Girlfriend Thinks Porn-Viewing Is a Dealbreaker“: Crimsonia Says: October 21st, 2010 at 12:19 pm …the industry is not all about the […]
photo by Victoria Peckham Dear Em & Lo, Lately, my boyfriend and I have been getting into a lot of fights. We’ve just reached the end of our honeymoon phase and we’re starting to get to know each other more and more on everyday terms. Our last really big fight just happened very recently, and […]
photo by tbonetaylor Older women want everyone to stop making such a big deal out of their long gray hair already. High-end escort blogger-slash-Swarthmore student turns out to be middle-aged male government worker in Delaware. Last night MSNBC aired a documentary, narrated by Rachel Maddow, called The Assassination of Dr. Tiller, which looked into whether larger […]
Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the best way to get your boyfriend/husband to dress up for Halloween with you, especially if he’s reluctant?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Matt): I’ve read about women in NYC who trade blowjobs for […]
photo by Lynette 1962 Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’ve been dating my boy for 3 years and I think I love him, but I keep having this […]
A few weeks ago we fondly wrote about the Know Your Meme podcast, and specifically highlighted their coverage of the loveable Antoine Dodson of “Bed Intruder” fame. Well, now he’s got what he (at least) is calling the # 1 Halloween get-up of 2010: The official Bed Intruder Costume! And good for him — why […]
YourTango: 50 couples Halloween costumes (our favorite: Double Rainbow). EdenFantasys’ Sexis: 3 ways to get over a breakup (1st, burn his house down…). CollegeCandy: 8 traits of a great wingwoman for college hook-ups. TresSugar: 10 unsexy Halloween costumes. TheFrisky: Their Girl on Girl Column reflects on all the recent gay bashing: “Yes, some people still […]
Thanks to our friends at Lemondrop (although “thanks” may be the wrong word), we recently discovered Pornkins, “an all new way to spice up your Halloween party” according to the website. It’s pretty weak as far as puns go, and the stencils are pretty unimpressive, artistically speaking. But if you happen to be one of […]
photo by rhys alton One of the most popular and commented-on posts is about strap-on sex. It’s not exactly a point of pride for us. We’re much more about the happy feel-good feminist relationship posts. And we worry that this prominent butt-sex mention is what keeps the advertisers away (of course, it could be the […]
photo by Anika Malone Once a month, Dr. Joe DeOrio, a urologist in Chicago, answers your questions on male sexual health. To ask him your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Joe, I’ve heard that regularly ejaculating (whether via masturbation or sex) can reduce a guy’s risk of prostate cancer –- is that true? — […]
photo by robbie_jim We were surprised by how many of our readers took offense at our Wise Guys’ response to the recent question, “Do Men Care What Labia Look Like?” To our mind, the guys were basically saying, “Love what you got, most men already do, porn ideals be damned.” But apparently that message didn’t […]
We’re the first people to say that avoiding fights completely in a relationship is not a realistic — nor a particularly healthy — goal. In fact, studies have found that couples who can fight passionately but civilly tend to have stronger romantic connections, i.e. their relationships don’t turn platonic as quickly. In other words, it’s […]
photo by bixentro Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks,“How common is it for guys imagine someone else while they’re having sex with a partner? Does it depend on the guy? Does it depend on the relationship? How do you think it compares to the rate at which women […]
photo by h.koppdelaney Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’ve been having dreams lately about an actor who I think is attractive. I’m certainly not obsessive about him consciously, […]
A few weeks ago, Craigslist TV (on YouTube) launched their second season of mini-documentaries based on real Craigslist ads. (Watch the trailer for the series here.) If you think reading the ads is great entertainment for inducing second-hand embarrassment, try watching them. Our favorite, of course, is still the first one from the first season, […]
CollegeCandy: 5 days to go from ice to nice TresSugar: How to become a Forbes Most Powerful Woman. EdenFantasys’ Sexis: Deep Throat — the Musical. Seriously. TheFrisky: Googling a crush and finding out the very worst. LemonDrop: Are you a comfort creature or a thrill seeker in bed? YourTango: Helping others in their relationships might […]