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So I have been talking to a guy for almost 7 years , we just clicked right of the bat, from personal problems to our favorite color. I mean, we know everything about each other. He had a girlfriend at the time we started talking and they broke up after 2 years. After talking for 5 years we finally made a day to meet each other. When we did, we had sex and we just hit it off. He will message every other day to check up on me. We’ve had sex 3 times altogether and I’m getting attached. I’m seriously in love with this guy and I just don’t know what to do.

Every time we have sex, well, specifically the last time we had sex, it was so passionate and it’s like deep down he cares about me. After talking for 6+ years you’d think he would tell me his feelings but I just can’t seem to get it out. He is always making me laugh, and every time I try to step back to breath and to see where he stands, especially after we hook up, he messages me lol.

I have seriously fallen head over heels for this guy and I’m not getting nowhere. I mean, I don’t want a relationship at the moment, I just want to see how he feels about me and possibly later on down the road see where the future takes us. If he just wanted sex then he would have left me after the first time, right ? Help!  

— In Love & Lost

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