Confessions
Confessions
Comment of the Week: Don’t Spread Your Seed…All Over Your Hotel Room

photo via Flickr Our inner uninhibited adventurers are often in conflict with our inner Miss Manners, which is why we got a kick out of Matbo’s comment about the recent Confession “7 Reasons to Love Hotel Sex“: Oh the germs, the germs! Also I’m all for being loud in bed, but don’t exagerate (“won’t someone […]

Personal Essays
7 Reasons to Love Hotel Sex

photo via flickr EMandLO.com contributor Jewely Hoxie, who is studying Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz – you can read her blog here – has a confession to make: I love to travel with my boyfriend, mostly because getting a hotel room together is so much fun. A change of scenery not […]

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Comment of the Week: Ladies, Stop Making Excuses, Start Asking Men Out

photo via flickr Men like it when women ask way more than women like it when men ask. A women who asks guys out will get way more dates than a guy who asks women out. I think sometimes women get rejected and then say that they were rejected because men don’t like aggressive women, […]

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Confession: The Top 10 Reasons I Love Being Naked

photo via Flickr Our intern Alyssa Perez has a confession to make: 1.  No Constraints: Do a lunge!   Kick your legs!  Spin in a circle while swinging your arms!  Feel that?  Yeah, just air.  No clothes rustling, no bra pinching, no underwear bunching, just air. 2.  Transparency: I can see absolutely everything on my body, and you know what?  That roll that I […]

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Comment of the Week: Shame On You, Em & Lo!

photo via flickr We recently published an article on this site called “10 Tips to Stop Hating Your Body Enough to Have Sex.” All of the tips were well-intentioned and most of the them were of the warm-fuzzy variety. But one of them, #9, stated: “Fuck like a dude. Make like a man and hook […]

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Question of the Week: How Do You Define Sex?

photo via flickr Occasionally on this site, we ask you guys an impertinent question and you can share your answer in the comments section below. Feel free to share your age, gender, relationship status, sexuality, etc., if you feel that it’s relevant to the answer. This week’s burning (in a good way) question: How do […]

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Comment of the Week: EMandLO.com Really Works! It’s Tingly!

Denorex commercial Jackie, commenting on the post “10 Steps to Orgasming Without a Vibrator” I’ve had this problem for years. I always believed that I was in that group of women that just wasn’t stimulated enough during any kind of intercourse that didn’t include a vibrator to achieve an orgasm. I’ve actually withheld from any […]

Personal Essays
5 Ways to Make Masturbation Even Better

EMandLO.com contributor Jewely Hoxie, who is studying Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz – you can read her blog here – has a confession to make: I think we can all agree now that plenty of women enjoy masturbation at least as much as men. But the way women enjoy masturbation can […]

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Sometimes Good Comments Come in Small Packages

photo via Flickr The following “Comment of the Week” was made in response to another recent “Comment of the Week” about female arousal: it’s simple, elegant and to the point: If she’s not into it, neither am I.

Polls
Poll: Who’s the Sexiest Republican Candidate?

We’re focusing on just the male candidates here, so even if you’re a straight dude, you can still pick who you think has the most sex appeal and it won’t make you gay. We almost included the option “How can you put “Republican” and “sexy” in the same sentence?” but figured you’d all vote for […]

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Comment of the Week: Self Doubt Ain’t Sexy

photo via flickr Short term, you could probably get away with [covering your breasts during sex]. Long term, no way – and you shouldn’t try. Look, I don’t know what your boobs are like, but any (decent) guy who might be disappointed by them will be more disappointed by your crippling self-doubt. You don’t have […]

Personal Essays
Confession: 10 Reasons Why I Like Shower Sex

photo via flickr EMandLO.com contributor Jewely Hoxie, who is studying Human Sexuality at the University of California Santa Cruz — you can read her blog here — has a confession to make: I am a total believer in water as a form of therapy. It relaxes me like nothing else, which is why I decided to […]

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Comment of the Week: Women Get Erections Too

photo of clitorial erectile tissue We were actually going to put an asterisk on yesterday’s Wise Guy misstatement about the labia and clitoris not needing to be erect for sex*, but we got lazy. Fortunately for us, Dannie is a great regular commenter around these here parts: If the vulva isn’t engorged with blood, if […]

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Question of the Week: How Long Should Intercourse Last?

photo via flickr Hey, hey, it’s a brand new feature on our site! Occasionally, we’ll ask you guys an impertinent question, and you can share your answer in the comments section below. Feel free to share your age, gender, relationship status, sexuality, etc., if you feel that it’s relevant to the answer. So, this week’s […]

Personal Essays
Confession: A Taste of One’s Own

Max, one of our Wise Guys, has a confession to make: Ladies, face it: After a blow job, your average man would like you to swallow his seed, plain and simple. Whether that’s because of pride, practicality or a penchant for raunchiness may vary from guy to guy, but a lover’s choice of spitting over […]