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Our Go-To Comedian for Gay Rights, Women Lib & Proper Fisting Technique

We both enjoy playing Texas Hold ‘Em, but of the two of us, I (Lo) enjoy it a little too much. So much so that when I just need a night away from it all, I go to Foxwoods to play the low limit table with a bunch of 65 year old men, half of whom have […]

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Blog Snog: When Your Backup Boyfriend Dumps You

Yes, we are referencing a 1997 Julia Roberts movie College Candy: When your backup boyfriend dumps you. The Frisky: 5 things to talk about before you move in together. TresSugar: Sexism, stereotypes, and the Super Bowl — recent ads that sexualize women. YourTango: 7 Valentine’s Day ideas for singles. Eden Fantasys’ Sexis: A Valentine’s Day gift […]

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It’s You, Perfected! The Power of Photoshop

There are many reasons not to read women’s magazines. One of the biggies? All the retouched photos. The genetic mutants we call models and celebrities can beat the shit out your average Jane’s self image, but Photoshop can chop it up with chainsaw. This before and after cover of Red Book from a few years ago thanks to Jezebel.com […]

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Blog Snog: The Flirtiest iPad Game for a First Date

image of Fingle College Candy: 10 signs you’ve been friend-zoned. The Frisky: 13 things to do after sex other than sleeping or cuddling. TresSugar: 16 actors who’ve cross-dressed in movies.  YourTango: The phrase men hate to hear.  Eden Fantasys’ Sexis: I love therefore I’m nuts: great philosophers who failed at love. HuffPost/Women: Heidi & Seal […]

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Top 10 Dirtier Books

photo via Flickr A few weeks back we jumped on the Twitter hashtag #lessambitiousbooks bandwagon, with a list of our Top 10 Less Ambitious Sex Books (The Joy of Dry Humping, Slight Hangup About Flying, etc.). This time around we figured we’d create our own damn hashtag — #dirtierbooks — so that nobody could accuse […]

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Blog Snog: An Interview with the “Booty Parlor” Founder

College Candy: An interview with Booty Parlor founder, Dana B. Myers. The Frisky: The 7 most baffling things about women’s clothes. TresSugar: 18 ways Michael Fassbender puts the sex in sexy. YourTango: When it comes to dating, are we shallower than we admit? Eden Fantasys’ Sexis: For the love of god, let my vagina sleep. […]

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The Ides of March: Awesome Except for That Unnecessary Retro Plot Twist

Before we get going, you need to know that this post contains monstrously huge plot spoilers for THE IDES OF MARCH. We’re not joking — scroll down at your peril. * * * The trouble is, it’s kind of hard to talk about THE IDES OF MARCH (out today on DVD, it was nominated but totally […]

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Blog Snog: Why Men Are Obsessed with Breasts

photo via flickr College Candy: Why are men obsessed with breasts? (This guy thinks it’s jealousy: because male nudity, sans boobs, is inherently a joke.) The Frisky: 15 skills every woman should master. TresSugar: 5 ways to attract love in 30 days! (We’re suckers for anything that sounds like an infomercial.) YourTango: How to make (and keep) […]

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The Slow But (Hopefully) Steady Erosion of Gender Stereotypes

Stop the presses! A detergent commercial with just a normal dad doing laundry. For our book club, we’re reading the 2003 novel “We Need to Talk About Kevin” by Lionel Shriver.* I, Lo, knowing nothing about the book or its author, began reading and was amazed that a male author could create a female narrator that […]

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The Obvious Player vs. the Faux-Sensitive Guy

photo via flickr Sexuality educator Charlie Glickman, who runs the education programs at Good Vibrations (in other words, he’s got serious Sensitive Guy chops), recently published an article on his blog called “Confessions of a Former Sensitive New Age Guy.” He consciously chose to become a S.N.A.G. back in college, and his motives were initially […]

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Stuff You Should Know About Orgasms

photo via flickr We’re always on the look-out for free podcasts to fill the interminable gaps between new episodes of This American Life and RadioLab, and one of our new favorites is the Stuff You Should Know podcast from HowStuffWorks.com. The hosts, Josh Clark and Chuck Bryant, are funny and smart and just the right amount […]

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The New Nerve Personals

It seems like just yesterday the two of us were out on the fire escape of the Nerve.com office, smoking (smoking!) and coming up with the profile questions for the original Nerve Personals (you may remember “______ is sexy; ______ is sexier”). The Nerve Personals had a meteoric rise, signing up affiliate partners like Salon and The […]

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Top 10 Less Ambitious Sex Books

photo via flickr We’re suckers for a good Twitter hashtag — they can make everyone feel like a stand-up comedian for a few minutes (not to mention giving us all a break from reading what our colleagues ate for breakfast). We particularly loved the #lessambitiousbooks hashtag that was trending this week, and of course we […]

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A Free Monologue for a New Year

This morning our inbox had an email from Mike Daisey titled “A free monologue for a new year.” Daisey is the monologist, writer, director, ex-Amazon employee best known for his extemporaneous monologues. He just performed a sold-out show at Boston University’s Huntington Theatre on New Year’s Eve as part of Boston’s First Night festivities. What caught our […]

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Blog Snog: Famous Kisses Throughout History

Historic Naval homecoming kiss College Candy: The 5 stages of a new relationship. TresSugar: Famous kisses throughout history. YourTango: 10 tips for finding love in 2012. Eden Fantasys’ Sexis: Is casual sex good for you? HuffPost/Women: 2011’s most absurd quotes about women. The Frisky: 12 celeb couples to watch in 2012. How About We: 5 easy […]

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“Bounce That Dick,” Feminist or Not?

When we were sent a link to the new YouTube video “Bounce That Dick” on the Jenna Marbles channel, we didn’t know what to expect: some kind of safe-for-work sexual technique advice video by a porn star turned educator? Then, during the first 30 seconds, our hopes were raised, as the young “blogger and entertainer” began […]