We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section. 

Dear Em & Lo,

I am afraid that I can’t orgasm. Oral and vaginal sex feel amazing — and even masturbating does, too. I begin to get different sensations, but then it gets to where it either hurts or just goes away, and there is no actual release. What’s wrong with me?

Sincerely,

Trouble in Paradise

What advice do you have for T.I.P.? Leave your suggestions in the comments section below.