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Blog Snog: Sexy Superheroes and Ex Lessons

photo by lu_lu GoodVibes imagines some Bay Area Superheroes, from Big Cock Spirit Man (“He speaks of his Buddha nature. He sits very still in parks. And then he takes your hand and places it over his very big cock”) to Lady of the Erogenous Knee (“She is so free of all boundaries, so liberated from […]

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ThingsThatAreDoingIt.com

If you like your humor cheap and juvenile but find PeopleOfWalmart.com just a bit too mean and depressing, then check out ThingsThatAreDoingIt.com — a collection of inadvertently sexually-charged inanimate objects. Many of the coolest ones seem to have dubious origins (no way is that naked tree goddess not Photoshopped) but the ones that look genuine […]

Personal Essays
Baby Talk: Intimacy Tool or Just Plain Gross?

Lo thinks that baby talk is an expression and facilitator of intimacy, that it encourages pair-bonding and protective instincts in romantic relationships. Which is to say, hating it outright is like hating kittens. Em thinks that baby talk is gross. So we decided to settle this once and for all like grownups — in an iChat […]

Pop Culture
Top 10 Classic Rom Coms

In honor of Valentine’s Day, we’ve decided to rerun a series of top ten lists over the next few weeks dedicated to the film-genre equivalent of those little heart candies: the romantic comedy. Today, we’re starting with the gimmies, the classic rom coms. We defy you not to watch and enjoy these movies when they […]

Research
The Rise of the Sugar Mama

photo via IMDB A recent study by the Pew Research Center, comparing marriages in 2007 with those in 1970, found that husbands whose wives earn more than they do jumped from 4% to 22%. This is partly because, for the first time ever, in the under 44 age group, more women than men have college […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Vanessa: Help, Something's Off Down There!

photo by striatic Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood® Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, For nearly 5 months I have had a sour tasting vaginal discharge.  It is […]

Pop Culture
Sundance Films Top 10 Infidelities

To count down to the Sundance Film Festival, we’ve been blogging about some of our favorite movie moments in the festival’s history. We’ve covered the Top 10 Lessons in Love, Top 10 Lessons in Young Love, Top 10 Oddest Couples, and Top 10 Sexy-FAIL Moments. This week is the final installment, and we saved the […]

Wise Guys
Is There Such a Thing as Ugly Breasts?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “Is there such a thing as ugly breasts, how do you describe them, and are they a dealbreaker for a guy?“ Straight Married Guy (Ben): I’m beginning to think that breasts are to women as dick size is to men: something women […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: Awake I'm Female, Asleep I'm Male

photo by grandcamel Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: My boyfriend and I broke up recently because of trust issues I have, but a couple days ago we decided […]

Pop Culture
The Wisdom of John Mayer, Tweeted

photo by Patty Keigan Say what you will about John Mayer’s music — here marks the spot where Lo censored Em’s compliments about “Your Body Is a Wonderland” as a matter of principle — his Tweets are some of the funniest in the biz. (Okay, so he doesn’t have a lot of competition. Britney Spears: […]

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Blog Snog: Bad Products and Erotic Contests

Wrong. So very wrong. The Frisky lists 5 vagina products we could all do without. YourTango provides creative ways for couples to start anew in 2010. Lemondrop tries to answer the question, Are older men better at sex? TresSugar lists the 5 love life resolutions to keep this year. College Candy lists 4 (only 4?!) […]

Pop Culture
A Little Bit Married

We recently spoke with Hannah Seligson about her new book “A Little Bit Married: How to Know When It’s Time to Walk Down the Aisle or Out the Door”: Why did you write this book? Personal experience? Of course! I’m my own guinea pig. After my first round of being A Little Bit Married, I […]

Dear Em & Lo
Dear Em & Lo: Should I Give My BF a 2nd Chance?

photo by batega Dear Em & Lo, I am 26 and have been dating my boyfriend, who is 23, for almost 3 years now. About 6 months after we first started dating, he got drunk and naked with a girl but told me he realized what he was about to do and stopped. Although I […]

Polls
Poll: How Much Sex Have You Had in a Day?

What’s the most number of times you have had partner sex in one 24-hour period? (Either with the same partner or with different partners.)(answers) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

News
Nevada Legalizes Male Prostitutes, But Will Women Pay to Play?

Nevada County has finally legalized male prostitutes — so now the only question remaining, especially with the approval arriving in the middle of a recession, is this: Will the phones be ringing off the hook, or will the silence be deafening? A small brothel — and wannabe stud form — about 150 miles northwest of […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Kate: Is My BF Too Big for Intercourse?

Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every few weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, I’ve started seeing this new guy who has a very wide, very long penis. The first time we […]