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Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: My One-Night Stand Shot Me Through the Heart

photo by szlea Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means (after the jump). This week, a woman asks Lauri: To start you must know the characters in my dream, there were only two… me and my […]

Do It Tonight
Please Help EMandLO.com: Click on the Link Below!

photo by Studio Mohawk ***CLICK HERE!*** It’s a link to our SUNfiltered post on The Top 10 Things Your Mama Inadvertently Taught You About Sex. By clicking on any of the links to it in this post you’ll help us try to win a most-trafficed-post contest, which will help us keep EMandLO.com up and running. […]

Pop Culture
Blog Snog (05-29-09)

photo via The Frisky A weekly roundup of some of our favorite sex- and love-related posts from various blogs and websites: Lady Gaga says she likes boys who look like girls, but the Frisky goes one better and Photoshops skirts onto a bunch of male celebs. It’s hotter than it sounds. (Though their Photoshopping skills […]

Research
Paula Abdul Was Right: Opposites Really Do Attract

photo by Rob Lee If you’re wondering why so many couples fight about money, here’s your answer: Surveys of married adults consistently show that opposites attract when it comes to the type of spender you are. Stingy tightwads who just can’t bring themselves to reach for the wallet, even when they know they should, tend […]

How To
Top 10 Striptease Tips

The traditional striptease is not for everyone: some consider it the ultimate display of female sexual power, reducing male viewers to quivering bowls of jelly, while others find it embarrassing or even demeaning. One thing’s for sure: many a man truly enjoys the visual, so an erotic dance can be a generous gift. This is […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Kate: I'm Dry as the Sahara

photo by flydime Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here once a week. To ask her your own question, click here. Dr. Kate, I need answers to this question or I’m afraid it’ll ruin my relationship. When I’m having […]

Toys
Let's Play a Game: Sexy, Sick or Stupid?

from Babeland’s Hello Kitty Vibrator Contest Here’s a round-up of some new sex-related swag available. We’ll let you decide which category each falls into: Babelandand Goodvibes are now carrying the old Hello Kitty “neck massager.” (Babeland’s also holding an adorable — or adorably twisted — Hello Kitty Vibe Photo Contest through September of this year.) […]

Vids
Eat Your Heart Out, Naked Cowboy

If you’ve ever streaked across your college campus, participated in a Spencer Tunick shoot, or had one of those dreams where you’re pantless in front of an auditorium of people, then you’ll probably get an extra kick out of Matt and Kim‘s new video for the song “Lessons Learned” from their sophomore effort, Grand. It […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: How Much Younger Than Him Can a Man Date?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “How much younger than them do you think most guys are comfortable dating before it becomes embarrassing? Or is there no limit as long as the youngster in question is legal and not a complete airhead?” Gay Single Guy (Jay Dyckman): Yes, […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: When Should He Leave His Wife for Me?

postcard via PostSecret We feel just awful that we can’t answer every single advice question we get, but we figure that any answer is better than no answer at all. Which is why, once a week, we’ll let you guys decide how to advise a reader. Make your call by filling out the poll after […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Broke Up with My Fiance's Ghost

photo by waffler Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means (after the jump). This week, a woman asks Lauri: My fiancé died of a health issue in December ’07. He had been sick for almost 3 […]

Pop Culture
Books: Beowulf on the Beach (Part 1 of 2)

Our friend Jack Murnighan’s new book, Beowulf on the Beach: What to Love and What to Skip in Literature’s 50 Greatest Hits, is guaranteed to inspire you to pick up at least one classic this summer. And not because you “should” or because it’ll make you a better person or a more interesting date (though […]

Uncategorized
Off for Memorial Day

You can expect our usual Monday posts (horoscopes, dream interpretation, etc) tomorrow. Peace.

Websites
Blog Snog (05-22-09)

photo via dutchtl A weekly roundup of some of our favorite sex- and love-related posts from various blogs and websites: Huh, Twilight is sexist? Funky Brown Chick signs up for J-date. The media’s framing of feminism as a perpetual catfight or a watered down movement based on drinking and fucking is a great way to […]

Toys
News from the Lab: Three Cheers for Elastomer!

photo by Alejandro Hernandez In case you hadn’t noticed, we tend to rant and rave a lot about what you shouldn’t put in your body. And we’re not just talking about taking unwrapped candy from strangers. No, we’re talking about sex toys, too. As consumers, we’re responsible for educating ourselves about what we stick where […]