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Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Cheated, Got Preggers, and Liked It

photo by dizznbonn Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. (By the way, she’s got a newly relaunched website up where you can get more free interpretations). This week, a woman asks Lauri: I’m 21 years […]

Do It Tonight
Do It Tonight! Practice Reciprocity

photo by zaphodsotherhead If we all followed the golden rule of reciprocity in bed, we think there’d be more sex, more orgasms, less bickering, fewer sex advice columnists (we’d be out of a job!), and possibly even world peace. Remember, if your partner tickles your back, it’s not just because they’re being nice — they […]

Websites
Valentine's Blog Snog (02-13-09)

photo by Zevotron A weekly roundup of sex- and love-related posts from some of our favorite blogs. This Valentine’s Day, why not let your guy be the inside spoon for a change? He might not admit it, but we bet he’d love it. Just ask YourTango‘s Tom Miller, who’s man enough to say he wants […]

Personal Essays
Confession: I'm an Oversharer (and I Just Had Sex!)

photo by bansal98 Our contributor Kristine deGuzman, a junior at UC Berkeley, has a confession to make: I’ve shared almost everything about my sex life with my friends — they know, for example, that I discovered masturbation when I was 8 and alone with my parents’ hand-held massager. And that I am prone to squirt […]

Toys
Screw the Chocolates, Get Me a Jimmyjane

Are you betting that your boyfriend is going to remember Valentine’s Day on Saturday morning and get you a last-minute, heart-shaped box of very unfair-trade chocolates from the mall? Then we recommend “accidentally” leaving this blog entry open on his laptop to steer him in the right direction. Or are you betting that your girlfriend […]

Polls
Poll: Love Me, Love My Bacne?

<a href =”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1356533/” >Picking each other’s zits…</a> <br/> <span style=”font-size:9px;” mce_style=”font-size:9px;”> (<a href =”http://www.polldaddy.com”> surveys</a>)</span> If you can’t see the poll, click here to take it.

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: What's a Good Valentine's Day Present for a Guy?

vintage card via howieluvzus Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What’s a good Valentine’s Day present for a guy? And please don’t say BJ. To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Married Guy (Jon Ross): I just have to say a BJ. I can’t help […]

Vids
When It Comes to Love, CBS Says, Think Different

You may be an anti-V-Day black-hearted cynic, but we dare you not to melt at this video. And is it just us, or does the CBS voiceover suggest that, this Valentine’s Day, it might be okay to love in a, you know, different way?

Do It Tonight
How to Have a Pretend Threeway

One of the most common letters we get from straight men writing into our advice column — right after “How can I safely enlarge my penis?” — is “How can I convince my girlfriend to have a threeway?” Unfortunately, guys, nagging is never going to get her in the mood to invite her roommate into […]

Websites
Blog Snog: 02-06-09

photo via cocoknits A weekly roundup of sex- and love-related posts from some of our favorite blogs. Thanks to boingboing, we now know what “smittens” are — mittens for holding hands in. Also, we just threw up a little in our mouths. We couldn’t agree more with The Frisky’s list of the Top Ten Things […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Kate: Can You Tell Me All About the NuvaRing?

Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City who’ll be answering your medical questions here regularly. After her recent post on the NuvaRing, a lot of you asked for more information on this birth control device, so here goes: The NuvaRing is one of my favorite forms […]

Polls
Poll: What Do You Think About Threesomes?

<a href =”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1314796/” >What do you think about threesomes?</a> <br/> <span style=”font-size:9px;” mce_style=”font-size:9px;”> (<a href =”http://www.polldaddy.com”> surveys</a>)</span> If you can’t see the poll, click here to take it.

Toys
Purple Is the New Green

Tantus has always been one of our favorite sex toy manufacturers. They’re a small company with a big vision: make quality toys actually meant for use (i.e. not novelties) that are safe for your bod. (Get the whole spiel in the informational video on every product page, if you can stand that nice woman’s unfortunate […]