5/18/15
Your Call: What Porn Will Get the Girlfriend Seal of Approval?

For two women who make their living writing about sex, we know surprisingly little about porn. We certainly have a lot of opinions about it — about compromising on it in a relationship, for example. But when it comes to the specifics — names of directors, recommended titles, decent actors and storylines, etc. — we mostly come up blank. It’s just never really been our thing. And if porn is not really your thing, then it’s incredibly hard to sit through more than a couple of minutes of it. You know, if you’re just in it for the writing or the acting or the plot points.

But we’re always being asked to recommend porn to people — especially to couples. Guys want to know, okay, so if my girlfriend and I are compromising on porn, what movies might my girlfriend be okay with. And women often want to know, okay, so if we’re compromising on porn, what movies might be fun for us to watch together?

So, dear readers, help us out! What porn movies have you seen that might pass the wife or girlfriend seal of approval? (We’re thinking decent plot lines, equal opportunity objectification and sexual satisfaction, not-too-terrible acting, etc.) And what movies might be good for couples to watch together? Speak up, porn aficionados! Leave your suggestions in the comments section below. We promise not to judge…

MORE LIKE THIS ON EMandLO.com:



8 Comments

  1. Check out the feminist porn awards! My favorite director is Erica Lust. +1 for X-Art, add Hegre Art and Party Babes.

  2. My wife likes joymii, X-Art, and SexArt the best. Dane Jones, Petra Joy, and Tristan Taormino are other good ones. Tristan’s Chemistry series had some good scenes.

  3. This is so tough because taste in porn is very personal. A friend-girl and I once exchanged a bit of info on actors/titles and quickly realized how divergent our stashes were. And not long ago when I told a guy friend that I saw some interesting cartoon porn, he was like, “Seriously dude?” But with that in mind, maybe you’d want to look at Nubile Films’ stuff? Their photography is nice and the men look more attractive than average – perhaps not enough racial diversity though. Another intriguing option is Xev Bellringer’s content on clips4sale. She seems to write and produce her own POV scenes, and is a decent actress to boot, but a lot of her stuff is incest-y(like “Brotherly Love”). Still, some potential there.

  4. My wife likes joymii, X-Art, and SexArt the best. Dane Jones, Petra Joy, and Tristan Taormino are other good ones. Tristan’s Chemistry series had some good scenes. Tristan also has some instructional ones can get a bit extreme depending on what your into. Expert Guide to Oral was pretty good. My wife ‘s biggest complaints about porn are not enough oral for the ladies, too much oral for the men (she’d prefer not to see it at all), and cum shots are a turn off. It’s hard to get away from, even in the ones mentioned.

  5. There’s a whole genre of glam porn that women might like.

    I don’t know about stories, but it’s got high production values, the male performers are hot too, the chemistry looks good between performers, the sex acts are realistic, there’s emphasis on pleasuring the woman… worth looking into.

  6. Belle, which ones? Because we’re pretty sure that not ALL instructional videos manage to be both sexy and informative 🙂

  7. Alas, I don’t know the names or directors or anything. But my husband and I found instructional videos to be both informative and sexy. We’ve watched several different kinds.

Comments are closed.