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Comments of the Week: Is Cunnilingus Inherently Sapphic? Duh.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

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photo via Flickr We wouldn’t want you to think EMandLO.com is anally fixated or anything, we just really appreciate the whole “what’s good for the goose is good for the gander” argument when it comes to defending straight men being receptive to a little backdoor love. Hence, the second comment of the week in a [...]

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Comment of the Week: Save a Piece of the Sex Pie for Yourself

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

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photo by smulligannn I reckon that as well as part of the sexuality pie we share with our partners, we all still have slices that belong to us as an individual. Perhaps if you feel his personal slice is way outweighing the slice you’re sharing as a couple, just have a good old wank yourself! [...]

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Comments of the Week: Friendship vs. Sex in LTRs

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

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photo by prakhar The following two comments were in response to “Your Call: He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla — Is the Relationship Doomed?” It’s Doomed, Says Amanda: I have a guy friend in this situation. He is kinky, she is not. His experience makes me think you are probably a bit doomed. I asked him as a [...]

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Comments of the Week: Three F’s vs Three C’s

Thursday, April 29, 2010


photo by comedy_nose We posted an article recently about cohabitation — it contained suggestions on how to avoid the transition from boyfriend-girlfriend to roommates who spoon and fart a lot once you move in. And it set off quite a debate in the comments section about what exactly men vs women (or is it men [...]

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Comment of the Week: A Different Way to Do It

Wednesday, April 21, 2010


photo by Michael Schubart In response to our chart on reconceptualizing male and female genitalia, Prof V had this to add: [For] men and women who were looking for more than ‘insert tab A into slot B’, [I've] always told them to take time to learn about each other’s bodies. Identify certain touches/sensations/pressures they enjoy [...]

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Comment of the Week – Let’s Kill the Cow That Gave the Milk for Free

Wednesday, April 14, 2010


photo by Cathy_Sam_Max_Mai We know this comment appeared last week, but we are in such hearty agreement that we decided it deserved mentioning this week anyway. Amen, Madamoiselle L! There is NOTHING I HATE as much as the STUPID, PATRIARCHAL, MISOGYNIST bullshit “analogy” “He won’t buy the cow if he can get the milk for [...]

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Comment of the Week: Learn to Love Nice Guys

Wednesday, March 24, 2010


photo by geishaboy500 Johnny on players versus nice guys, in response to the post “Dear Em & Lo: How Can I Connect with Someone Before Sex“: Based on your description of your sexual history, you’ve been dealing with players. Also, though you may look back on your experience as a promiscuous woman (I’m not going [...]

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Comment of the Week: Introduce Sex Toys Early and Often

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

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photo by love janine I make sure to introduce toys early on into a relationship. Basically, if a potential partner isn’t okay with toys then I’m not going to be okay with him. I don’t need toys to have an orgasm, but they can be awfully nice to have around. The orgasms are more intense, [...]

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Comments of the Week: Do It When Everyone’s Ready

Wednesday, March 10, 2010


photo by (nutmeg) We got a TON of great comments on the “How Long Can a Virgin Make a Guy Wait?” post, from Spes, SS, Madamaoiselle L….it was so hard to choose one! So we picked two: Rhett Butler: Let me recast the question to illuminate it a bit more.  While the analogy isn’t perfect, [...]

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Comment of the Week: When HE Puts Out Too Soon

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

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photo by e.esders Just to prove that it’s not only women who fall hard on a first date, get swept up by their libido, and never hear from said date again… I met this beautiful gal on a dating website. We had a second date, had a great time, spent the entire day together. At [...]

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