Why Some Men Aren’t Interested in Women’s Pleasure

Jenny Bean had a thoughtful (and somewhat depressing) response to the post “My Husband Won’t Even Try to Give Me an Orgasm“:

I think society tells us girls early in life that we shouldn’t want sex, sex is bad. Girls that do like sex or God forbid have a sex drive [are] slu**s, who**s, etc. Men on the other hand [are] not shamed about their sex drive at all. Now we are all grown up in marriages or long term relationships and still these ideals carry over into our sex life. Men held on to the ideas, that women don’t have a drive, need, or desire sex like guys do. It seems men think that when it comes to them, they are his “needs.” When it comes to women and sex, our needs are merely “wants.” It’s not that big of a deal if we are really satisfied because girls aren’t suppose to have a sex drive in the first place.

But what if her sex drive runs circles around his?
I Can’t Keep Up with My Girlfriend’s Libido