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Tag Archive | "Crime"

An Open Letter to Our Readers About That Football & Rape Piece

Tuesday, October 21, 2014


photo via Flickr Dear Readers (Robert in particular), Our recent post, Is Football More Important Than Rape, syndicated by us from YourTango and written by Charles J. Orlando, ignited one of the most spirited and thoughtful debates EMandLO.com has had in a long time. The first response came from Robert, a long-time reader, now (sniff) [...]

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Is Football More Important Than Rape?

Friday, October 17, 2014


by Charles J. Orlando for YourTango ¬†| ¬†photo via flickr It’s time to actually #blamejameis and those who enable him. Mr. Winston: I’ve been following your college football career at Florida State University as quarterback for the Seminoles. You have an incredible arm, and your insight into a defense’s secondary is enviable. You’re a Heisman [...]

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Top 10 Sex Tips for College Students (Especially First-Years)

Wednesday, August 27, 2014


For many young women and men, the end of August marks the start of a new chapter of life ‚ÄĒ one of higher learning, critical thinking, problem solving, horizon broadening, and lots and lots of casual bonking. It‚Äôs a whole new world of unchaperoned independence and freedom combined with 18-year-old hormones ‚ÄĒ which can result [...]

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How to Define “Classic Rape”

Friday, July 11, 2014


Last week, a UK judge proved just how real “rape culture” is: In response to a jury quickly finding a man guilty of raping a woman who was passed out on his couch, the judge offered these condolences to the criminal (i.e. not the victim): “It’s sad to see a man of generally good character [...]

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Highlights from #YesAllWomen

Wednesday, May 28, 2014


The Twitterstorm known as #YesAllWomen that’s blown up over the past week — in response to both the misogyny-fueled killing spree at UCSB last Friday and the misguided hashtag “NotAllMen” that took off shortly thereafter — has shined a bright light on how much more work needs to be done dismantling idealogical sexism. Here’s a [...]

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Poll: Who Do You Believe, Woody Allen or Dylan Farrow?

Friday, February 7, 2014


photo via Flickr Poll: Who Do You Believe, Woody Allen or Dylan Farrow?

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Dream Interpretation: My Boyfriend Doesn’t Care About My Assault

Thursday, May 2, 2013


photo via Flickr Each week, Lauri¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means here on EMandLO.com. Here’s this week’s: I had an odd dream. I was going to a movie with my boyfriend and they were searching people. He got searched and then walked on ahead while I took my turn. The guy searching [...]

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My Meds Are Making My Dreams Sexually Terrifying

Thursday, April 18, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, another reader continues the running Sapphic theme and asks Lauri: I have recently been diagnosed with depression and [...]

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Dream Interpretation: My Boyfriend and I Cut Each Other with a Knife

Thursday, January 31, 2013


photo via flickr Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst¬†Lauri Loewenberg¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze?¬†Click here to submit it.¬†This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’m alone in my boyfriend’s parents’ house, all of a sudden [...]

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Top 10 Sexual Extremes in Film

Friday, October 19, 2012


This list originally ran here on the SUNDANCE CHANNEL. Some things to keep in mind about our list: To make the cut, the films actually had to have some redeeming qualities (so, sorry¬†BOXING HELENA¬†and¬†HUMAN CENTIPEDE!). We tried to pick films that represented ten different extremes — after all, variety is the spice of (sex) life! [...]

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