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Tag Archive | "Crime"

Is Football More Important Than Rape?

Friday, October 17, 2014


by Charles J. Orlando for YourTango ¬†| ¬†photo via flickr It’s time to actually #blamejameis and those who enable him. Mr. Winston: I’ve been following your college football career at Florida State University as quarterback for the Seminoles. You have an incredible arm, and your insight into a defense’s secondary is enviable. You’re a Heisman [...]

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Top 10 Sex Tips for College Students (Especially First-Years)

Wednesday, August 27, 2014


For many young women and men, the end of August marks the start of a new chapter of life ‚ÄĒ one of higher learning, critical thinking, problem solving, horizon broadening, and lots and lots of casual bonking. It‚Äôs a whole new world of unchaperoned independence and freedom combined with 18-year-old hormones ‚ÄĒ which can result [...]

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How to Define “Classic Rape”

Friday, July 11, 2014


Last week, a UK judge proved just how real “rape culture” is: In response to a jury quickly finding a man guilty of raping a woman who was passed out on his couch, the judge offered these condolences to the criminal (i.e. not the victim): “It’s sad to see a man of generally good character [...]

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Highlights from #YesAllWomen

Wednesday, May 28, 2014


The Twitterstorm known as #YesAllWomen that’s blown up over the past week — in response to both the misogyny-fueled killing spree at UCSB last Friday and the misguided hashtag “NotAllMen” that took off shortly thereafter — has shined a bright light on how much more work needs to be done dismantling idealogical sexism. Here’s a [...]

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Poll: Who Do You Believe, Woody Allen or Dylan Farrow?

Friday, February 7, 2014


photo via Flickr Poll: Who Do You Believe, Woody Allen or Dylan Farrow?

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Dream Interpretation: My Boyfriend Doesn’t Care About My Assault

Thursday, May 2, 2013


photo via Flickr Each week, Lauri¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means here on EMandLO.com. Here’s this week’s: I had an odd dream. I was going to a movie with my boyfriend and they were searching people. He got searched and then walked on ahead while I took my turn. The guy searching [...]

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My Meds Are Making My Dreams Sexually Terrifying

Thursday, April 18, 2013

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Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, another reader continues the running Sapphic theme and asks Lauri: I have recently been diagnosed with depression and [...]

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Dream Interpretation: My Boyfriend and I Cut Each Other with a Knife

Thursday, January 31, 2013


photo via flickr Other people‚Äôs dreams are never interesting‚Ķexcept when they‚Äôre about sex. Each week, our dream analyst¬†Lauri Loewenberg¬†tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze?¬†Click here to submit it.¬†This week, a reader asks Lauri: I’m alone in my boyfriend’s parents’ house, all of a sudden [...]

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Top 10 Sexual Extremes in Film

Friday, October 19, 2012


This list originally ran here on the SUNDANCE CHANNEL. Some things to keep in mind about our list: To make the cut, the films actually had to have some redeeming qualities (so, sorry¬†BOXING HELENA¬†and¬†HUMAN CENTIPEDE!). We tried to pick films that represented ten different extremes — after all, variety is the spice of (sex) life! [...]

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Dear Em & Lo, Are Rape Fantasies Normal…If I’m a Rape Survivor?

Wednesday, October 10, 2012


Close up of the 17th century painting “The Rape of the Sabine Women” by Cortona¬† Dear Em & Lo, I’m not sure if I’m going to word this correctly, but here it goes. I’m 20 years old and am engaged to a wonderful man who has blessed me with a son. Before I met him [...]

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