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Wise Guys – What’s the Best Way to Turn Down a 2nd Date?

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

photo by Brujita Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: ” What’s the best way to turn down a guy who you’ve been on a date or two with, but don’t want to go on any others?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Engaged Guy (Joel Derfner, [...]

10 Simple Steps to Hosting a Sexy Sleepover

Thursday, July 29, 2010

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photo by SFBNess If you’re planning on having a new guest over to “look at your etchings” for the first time, follow these 10 rules to ensure there’s a next time: Only invite a guest over when you won’t have to rush out the door the next morning. Warn any roommates that you will be entertaining that evening. Remove [...]

Wise Guys – Do You Really Want to Know How Many Partners She’s Had?

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

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photo by Raissa Bandou Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “When it comes to the number of sexual partners a woman has had, do guys want to know? Even if they say they do, are they lying?” Straight Single Guy (Mark Luczak): It’s the Information Age, and people in general [...]

Dear Em & Lo – How Can I Dump Him If He Won’t See Me?

Friday, July 23, 2010

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photo by faster_panda_kill_kill Dear Em & Lo, So I have this guy friend who I met my freshmen year at college. We used to hang out a lot together and, well, I ended up liking him. The only problem was that he sometimes did not seem to feel the same way towards me. He would flirt back and lead my [...]

Wise Guys: What’s the Biggest First Date Turn-Off?

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

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photo by Philippe Guillaume Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the number one turn-off on a first date for a guy?” Straight Married Guy (Matt): Bad breath. That would be it for me with the first whiff — any chance of relationship: done. Most other things (obviously outside of [...]

Overnight Handbag: How to Prepare for a Casual Sleepover

Thursday, July 1, 2010

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photo by dunikowski Ladies, if there’s any chance your evening will end up in a sleepover, transform your purse into a make-shift washbag. Even if there isn’t a snowball’s chance in hell you’ll be getting nooky tonight, carry these items with you anyway — because the best hook-ups happen when you least expect them. Compact ballet flats. [...]

How NOT to Spice Up Your Relationship

Friday, June 25, 2010

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photo by Jason Clapp The following Em & Lo article is also published in Sexis, EdenFantasys.com’s magazine: We’ve been in the magazine business for more than ten years, and we are still suckers for those stupid headlines like “537 Ways to Improve Your Sex Life TONIGHT!” We just can’t help flipping to that article while we’re stuck in the [...]

Books: Every Rose Has Its Thorn

Friday, June 18, 2010

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We really should have some kind of back-stabbing, cat-fighting (or at least pillow-fighting) relationship with Erin Bradley — author of the new book Every Rose Has Its Thorn: The Rock ‘n’ Roll Field Guide to Guys – seeing as she picked up where we left off at Nerve.com. She’s been their advice lady now for [...]

The How To’s of Designated Dialing

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

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photo by sidewalk_flying Drunk dialing — we’ve all been there. For the record, not all booty calls conducted under the influence are considered drunk dialing. It’s only drunk dialing if you’re making a call that you will actually regret in the morning, whether or not that call results in booty. Typically when you drunk dial, you’re [...]

Your Call – Is Living with Your Mom a Dealbreaker for Guys?

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

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photo by klynslis Share your advice for this reader in the comments section below… Dear Em & Lo and Wise Guys, I’m a 38 year old woman and after a horrendous year (divorce, job loss, money loss), I finally have a job that I’m trying to earn more money at. The problem is, my mom and I rent [...]


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Wise Guys – What’s the Best Way to Turn Down a 2nd Date?

10 Simple Steps to Hosting a Sexy Sleepover

Wise Guys – Do You Really Want to Know How Many Partners She’s Had?

Dear Em & Lo – How Can I Dump Him If He Won’t See Me?

Wise Guys: What’s the Biggest First Date Turn-Off?

Overnight Handbag: How to Prepare for a Casual Sleepover

How NOT to Spice Up Your Relationship

Books: Every Rose Has Its Thorn

The How To’s of Designated Dialing

Your Call – Is Living with Your Mom a Dealbreaker for Guys?

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