Em & Lo's RSS Feed Em & Lo's Daily Email Feed Be Our Facebook Friend! Follow Us on Twitter!

LEVI's on Amazon

Good Vibes Summer Lubes

Buy on Amazon Kindle!

Sandals on Amazon


Tag Archive | "Kink"

Comment of the Week: How to Really Talk About Sex with Your Spouse

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

1 Comment

photo via Wikimedia Reader Nikki dropped some serious wisdom this week in response to our post, “BDSM Saved My Life, But Is Ruining My Near Perfect Marriage” (we’re thinking we may have to start a Kinksters Anonymous support group to help out all these kink-stressed marriages): Oh, damn. This is a tough situation. It sounds [...]

Continue reading...

BDSM Saved My Life, But Is Ruining My Near Perfect Marriage

Monday, August 11, 2014

1 Comment

Okay, so this letter below from one of our readers is super long, and it’s not nearly as memerific as Kickstarter potato salad or photos of celebrities without makeup. But trust us, it’s worth the read. It’s from a man who is married to the woman of his dreams — they love each other’s company, [...]

Continue reading...

How “Fifty Shades” Has Changed Sex Over the Past 3 Years

Friday, August 8, 2014

0 Comments

sponsored post As if the whole Internet going gaga over the first trailer for the movie adaptation of E.L. James’ erotic novel “Fifty Shades of Grey” wasn’t evidence enough, our friends over at LELO have actually quantified just how influential the story of Ana, Christian and his woven tie have been on the world’s sexual habits. [...]

Continue reading...

Extra-Marital Sex: Ask for Permission, Not Forgiveness

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

0 Comments

Reader Vixen told the following cautionary tale in response to our post, “Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?” Remember, dear readers: Most people find it easier to get over infidelity than dishonesty in their spouse. The sooner you say something — preferably before you actually cheat — the better. My [...]

Continue reading...

Last Chance to Get a Great $10 “Gag” Gift for Mom!

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

0 Comments

Lelo’s Etherea Silk Cuffs Mother’s Day is THIS Sunday, so you only have a couple days left to get Mom the gift that’ll tide her over until the Fifty Shades movie comes out next year: our book, 150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink! Hear us out: Moms loved the Twilight series, but secretly [...]

Continue reading...

Moms Are Kinky People Too!

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

0 Comments

Lelo’s Etherea Silk Cuffs Mother’s Day is just around the corner! Sure, you could get her some nice flowers…again. Or you could get her something she’ll really enjoy: our new book, 150 SHADES OF PLAY: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink! Hear us out: Moms loved the Twilight series, but secretly wished there was more sex [...]

Continue reading...

The Three Make-or-Break Issues In Every Relationship

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

0 Comments

Reader Blah Blah Blacksheep (best username ever, by the way!) said the following in response to our post Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed? Money, sex, and kids are the three make-or-break things in every relationship. A spender will have a hard time being with a saver. Two dominants or [...]

Continue reading...

Comment of the Week: BDSM Destroyed My Marriage

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

5 Comments

photo via flickr Reader Nancy told the following heartbreaking story in response to our post, “Your Call – He’s Kinky, She’s Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?” Sometimes, it turns out, love just isn’t enough… I have been married for 17 years and recently discovered my husband’s infidelity. He started with a porn addiction which affected [...]

Continue reading...

Fifty Shades of… Vanilla?

Thursday, February 13, 2014

0 Comments

photo via flickr | sponsored post Back in January we wrote about new research from LELO showing that the kinky sex revolution is waning: Sales of toys such as whips and teasers reached a plateau in the last quarter of 2013, compared with a 50% increase over the same period in 2012. Meanwhile, sales of premium couples massagers and vibrating couples’ rings worn [...]

Continue reading...

The Best (Most Affordable) Valentine’s Day Present You Can Give

Friday, January 31, 2014

0 Comments

Here are the top 10 reasons why our award-winning book 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink makes the best Valentine’s Day present: It gives you the great excuse to try something new in the bedroom — perfect for longterm couples on Valentine’s Day. It also has staying power. The perspectives it can [...]

Continue reading...