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Tag Archive | "Kink"

How to Become a Cuckold (If That’s Your Thing)

Thursday, October 23, 2014

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Every now and then (okay, so it’s not exactly rare!) a reader gives better advice than we ever could. Especially when it’s a very specific situation that we have zero experience in… and the reader has experience in spades. This week is just such a case: Reader Ken shares very smart advice on how to [...]

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Top 10 Tips for Erotic Spanking

Friday, October 3, 2014

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photo via Flickr Hand-to-bum contact, if you can pull it off without cracking up (heh, we said crack), is a great way to add some kinky flavor to your next sesh. It’s intimate, it’s saucy, and — when compared to, say, a whip or a flogger — it’s safe for newbies to try out. Also, [...]

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How to Make Your Ravishment Fantasy Come True

Thursday, September 25, 2014

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There is perhaps no sexual fantasy that disturbs people more than the rape fantasy. ¬†Even people in committed, loving relationships who have successfully navigated such a fantasy with massive amounts of communication and trust can feel weird about it. Readers often ask us, “What’s wrong with me that I’m into this?” Well, as we have [...]

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How “Fifty Shades” Has Changed Sex Over the Past 3 Years

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

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sponsored post As if the whole Internet going gaga over the first trailer for the movie adaptation of E.L. James’ erotic novel “Fifty Shades of Grey”¬†wasn’t evidence enough, our friends over at LELO have actually quantified just how influential the story of Ana, Christian and his woven tie have been on the world’s sexual habits. [...]

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10 Reasons to Become a Submissive (If Only for a Night)

Friday, September 12, 2014

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LELO’s Etherea Silk Cuffs You want a little freedom from all your daily responsibilities. You’ve been with your partner for a while and things are getting a little routine. You kinda like being held down and tickled. You think our book on the topic “150 Shades of Play” is fascinating. You don’t want to over-think [...]

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Where Can We Swing with Other Grownups (Minus the A-Holes)?

Monday, September 8, 2014

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image of Bruce Nauman light show via flickr We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Some days, we simply don’t have the time, and others — like today — we don’t have a clue.¬†Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to [...]

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Comment of the Week: How to Really Talk About Sex with Your Spouse

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

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photo via Wikimedia Reader Nikki dropped some serious wisdom this week in response to our post, “BDSM Saved My Life, But Is Ruining My Near Perfect Marriage” (we’re thinking we may have to start a Kinksters Anonymous support group to help out all these kink-stressed marriages): Oh, damn. This is a tough situation. It sounds [...]

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BDSM Saved My Life, But Is Ruining My Near Perfect Marriage

Monday, August 11, 2014

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Okay, so this letter below from one of our readers is super long, and it’s not nearly as memerific as Kickstarter potato salad or photos of celebrities without makeup. But trust us, it’s worth the read. It’s from a man who is married to the woman of his dreams — they love each other’s company, [...]

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How “Fifty Shades” Has Changed Sex Over the Past 3 Years

Friday, August 8, 2014

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sponsored post As if the whole Internet going gaga over the first trailer for the movie adaptation of E.L. James’ erotic novel “Fifty Shades of Grey”¬†wasn’t evidence enough, our friends over at LELO have actually quantified just how influential the story of Ana, Christian and his woven tie have been on the world’s sexual habits. [...]

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Extra-Marital Sex: Ask for Permission, Not Forgiveness

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

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Reader Vixen told the following cautionary tale in response to our post, “Your Call ‚Äď He‚Äôs Kinky, She‚Äôs Vanilla, Is the Relationship Doomed?” Remember, dear readers: Most people find it easier to get over infidelity than dishonesty in their spouse. The sooner you say something — preferably before you actually cheat — the better. My [...]

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