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Tag Archive | "Manual Sex"

Wise Guys: Do Men Ever Appreciate a Handjob?

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

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photo via flickr Advice from four of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: I’ve heard that it’s not worth giving a guy a handjob because he can just do it better himself. Is that true? Straight Married Guy (Jamie): Sadly, yes.¬† But I think the problem is just one of misconception on [...]

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Your Call: My Route to Orgasm Is Too Complicated for Husband

Monday, January 6, 2014

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Antique map via Flickr We get a lot of¬†advice questions¬†coming in at¬†EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can‚Äôt answer them all. Which is why,¬†once a week, we turn to you to¬†decide how best to advise a reader. You can leave your advice in the comments section below — for this question in particular, we thought that [...]

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Wise Guys: Do You Like a Helping Handjob, Or Is Solo Better?

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

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photo via flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “s a handjob better than nothing for most guys, or would they rather just do the job themselves in that case?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Tom Miller): This question is silly. [...]

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Your Call: Why Does Manual Sex Feel Amazing, Then Too Much?

Thursday, May 31, 2012

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photo via flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  Dear Em & Lo, I have been with [...]

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5 Ways to Reconceptualize SEX

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

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photo via Flickr We’ve said it before, we’ll say it again: Sex is not intercourse. So stop using the two words interchangeably! When we as a society do this over and over again, it gets into the collective unconscious and starts limiting how we imagine the possibilities of pleasure, especially for women. A majority of [...]

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Dear Dr. Kate: Is It Normal to Bleed After Intense Manual Sex?

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

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photo by stepheye Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here every two weeks. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Kate, My husband sometimes likes to make me “squirt” (the female equivalent of ejaculation). He does [...]

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Your Call: Why Doesn’t Oral or Manual Feel Like My Rabbit?

Friday, June 3, 2011

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We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & Lo, I have [...]

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Your Call – How Can I Enjoy My Sex Life As Much As My Sex Toy?

Friday, October 1, 2010

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photo by ValtheKid We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Confession: I Don’t Do Handjobs

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

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photo by permanently scatterbrained Our contributor Abby Spector, who is double-majoring in English and Feminine/Gender/Sexuality Studies at Wesleyan University, has a confession to make: I consider myself a sexual adventurer. As a bisexual who has posed naked for photographers, enjoys threesomes, and has a collection of vibrators, I think I deserve the label. However, there [...]

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Video: Let’s Get Physical

Monday, August 10, 2009

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We’re not sure which is more disturbing: this video, or the 1,396 (and counting) comments that make us fear for the future of sex (and humanity), including such gems as: It’s like my penis! Save your money ladies youÔĽŅ can get lean toned(lol) arms for free! You’ll be slapping away that arm flab in no [...]

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