photo via Flickr And we don’t mean intentionally, when you’re trying to think about baseball stats to prolong your performance. We mean when your mind just wanders – maybe you’re tired or distracted or bored or drunk (or sleeping with someone who’s inept in bed and too drunk to care whether or not you fake). Have you [...]
Continue reading...Friday, December 7, 2012
photo via flickr At what point in a relationship is it acceptable to give a gift that is sex-related — a high-end toy, perhaps, or a saucy costume or, say, a beginner’s guide to kink* (to offer a completely random example…)? After you’ve met each other’s parents? After you’ve met each other’s a-holes? After you’ve [...]
Continue reading...Friday, November 30, 2012
Madame Bovary (1949) Question of the week: Can a relationship survive if one person loves their partner more than the other loves them back? Women have been told for generations — usually by their mothers or aunts or grandmothers — that they should “marry a man who loves you just a little more than you [...]
Continue reading...Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Plug and Socket costume on Amazon.com When you’re in a couple, do you like to coordinate Halloween costumes with your partner? If so, is it something that new couples can do, or should it be saved only until after you’ve farted in front of each other, met each other’s parents, and perhaps even promised eternal [...]
Continue reading...Monday, September 17, 2012
The way Hollywood portrays it, you’d think nobody ever worried about getting pregnant or contracting an STD. Safer sex is pretty much nonexistent in mainstream movies. But every now and then, a little latex breaks through. Can you think of any? Let’s see if we can compile a list of the condom’s greatest Hollywood moments [...]
Continue reading...Thursday, June 7, 2012
The New York Observer reported this week that more and more married couples are taking in roommates, thanks to the economy (and the always tough real estate market in the city). More than one couple noted that having a roommate was actually good for their marriage — it forced them to have more interesting and [...]
Continue reading...Thursday, May 10, 2012
What would you do if you were the opposite sex for a day? What if you were the opposite sex for a month? For a year? Leave your response in the comments section below (feel free to share your age, sex, relationship status, etc., if it’s relevant to your answer).
Continue reading...Thursday, April 12, 2012
photo via flickr Do you ever fantasize about other people during sex with your partner? Does it depend on the relationship (casual vs. long-term)? How often do you think it is acceptable to do this? Do you ever tell your partner that you do this, or is it better to keep this sort of fantasy [...]
Continue reading...Thursday, March 15, 2012
photo via flickr What’s your opinion on the 69? Is it a win-win in the bedroom, the ultimate in quid-pro-quo? An intense, in-your-face (literally!) intimacy? Or is it distracting/boring/complicated/claustrophobic? Leave your response in the comments section below (feel free to share your age, gender, relationship status, etc., if it’s relevant to your answer).
Continue reading...Thursday, February 16, 2012
What’s the one sex toy you’d hate to live without? Your desert island sex toy, if you will. Leave your response in the comments section below (feel free to share your age, gender, relationship status, etc., if it’s relevant to your answer).
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Friday, January 11, 2013
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