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Tag Archive | "Role-playing"

5 Ways That Getting Kinky Can Improve Your Relationship

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

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photo via flickr Our new book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, is on sale now. Here are five good reasons to check it out and get your kink on… 1. INCREASED TRUST It takes a boatload of trust to let someone tie you up or clamp your nipples or spank you [...]

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Are Halloween Couple Costumes Cute or Cloying?

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

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Plug and Socket costume on Amazon.com When you’re in a couple, do you like to coordinate Halloween costumes with your partner? If so, is it something that new couples can do, or should it be saved only until after you’ve farted in front of each other, met each other’s parents, and perhaps even promised eternal [...]

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Your Call: We Got Kinky Then She Dumped Me – Now What?

Friday, March 2, 2012

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. Dear Em & [...]

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5 Ways to Keep Sex Fresh and New — No, Seriously

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

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photo by John Brawley If you want to feel like it’s the very first time, then it’s important to keep sex surprising and try new things regularly. You can’t get lazy. So give the following steps a try every now and then. You might feel silly being “experimental,” but the occasional awkward moment is a [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Wife Asked Me to Slap Her

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

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photo by Mickey Sick Dear Em & Lo, My wife and I have been together just over five years. The other night while having sex, she asked me to slap her in the face. Repeatedly. I was raised not to lay a hand down on a woman, and now I am being asked to. We [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies Too?

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

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Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “You often hear how the rape fantasy is common in the minds of many women. Do men have this fantasy, too?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Tom Miller): I’m sure lots of men have rape [...]

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Your Call: How to Make Role-Playing Less Renn Fair?

Friday, February 25, 2011

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photo by h.koppdelaney We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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Wise Guys: How Can I Get Him to Dress Up for Halloween?

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

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photo by zenobia joy Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the best way to get your boyfriend/husband to dress up for Halloween with you, especially if he’s reluctant?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Matt): I’ve read about women in NYC [...]

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Poll: Who’s Most Fun to Role-Play on TV?

Thursday, July 29, 2010

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Which TV show has the best role-playing potential? (Feel free to explain your answer or suggest another option in the feedback section.)Market Research Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.

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Your Call on Spank Tuesday: How Do I Get My Guy to Spank Me?

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

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photo via Rachel_Kramer_Bussel “Spank Tuesday” continues with this question from a reader: Dear Em & Lo, How do I ask my husband to spank me? It is many years since I was spanked. Do I just ask him or buy a paddle as a Valentine’s gift or what? – Red-Cheeked Wannabe What should Red-Cheeked Wannabe [...]

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