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Tag Archive | "Role-playing"

Dear Em & Lo: How Great Should First-Time Sex with a New Partner Be?

Thursday, April 24, 2014

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photo via Flickr Dear Em and Lo, I was married for 20 years and now I am not.¬† I’m not crying in my soup (is that the term?). I’ve learned a lot about what makes for a crappy relationship and bad sex. And I have gained a sense of humor, sexual confidence and a pretty [...]

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Top 10 “Sexy” Halloween Costume Ideas for Men

Sunday, October 20, 2013

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You’d think by now we’d be unshockable, but every year we continue to be flabbergasted by the sheer range of Halloween costumes that are sexed up. (Sexy cheeseburger, seriously?!) What’s not shocking at all: That 99.9% of these costumes are for women. So here are some ideas for men who are looking to gratuitously sex [...]

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Top 10 Timely Halloween Costumes for Couples

Sunday, October 20, 2013

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Lo and her guy a couple Halloweens ago It’s only three weeks to Halloween, which means that if you plan on doing something more elaborate than throwing a sheet over your head and saying BOO! a lot, you better get your act together soon. So, with that in mind, here are our top ten ideas [...]

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5 Ways That Getting Kinky Can Improve Your Relationship

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

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photo via flickr Our new book, 150 Shades of Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Kink, is on sale now. Here are five good reasons to check it out and get your kink on… 1. INCREASED TRUST It takes a boatload of trust to let someone tie you up or clamp your nipples or spank you [...]

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Are Halloween Couple Costumes Cute or Cloying?

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

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Plug and Socket costume on Amazon.com When you’re in a couple, do you like to coordinate Halloween costumes with your partner? If so, is it something that new couples can do, or should it be saved only until after you’ve farted in front of each other, met each other’s parents, and perhaps even promised eternal [...]

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Your Call: We Got Kinky Then She Dumped Me – Now What?

Friday, March 2, 2012

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photo via Flickr We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below. Dear Em & [...]

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5 Ways to Keep Sex Fresh and New — No, Seriously

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

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photo by John Brawley If you want to feel like it’s the very first time, then it’s important to keep sex surprising and try new things regularly. You can‚Äôt get lazy. So give the following steps a try every now and then. You might feel silly being “experimental,” but the occasional awkward moment is a [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Wife Asked Me to Slap Her

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

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photo by Mickey Sick Dear Em & Lo, My wife and I have been together just over five years. The other night while having sex, she asked me to slap her in the face. Repeatedly. I was raised not to lay a hand down on a woman, and now I am being asked to. We [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Have Rape Fantasies Too?

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

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Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “You often hear how the rape fantasy is common in the minds of many women. Do men have this fantasy, too?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Tom Miller): I’m sure lots of men have rape [...]

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Your Call: How to Make Role-Playing Less Renn Fair?

Friday, February 25, 2011

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photo by h.koppdelaney We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & [...]

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