What's Up Doc?
Dr. Kate: Leaky Nips? But I'm Not Breastfeeding!

photo by box_of_lettuce Dr. Kate is an OB/GYN at one of the largest teaching hospitals in New York City and she answers your medical questions here once a week. To ask her your own question, click here. Hi Dr. Kate, Recently I discovered that my nipples have been leaking some sort of substance. At first […]

Polls
Ladies Only: When Was Your First Solo O?

Ladies, how old were you when you had your first orgasm via masturbation? ( surveys) Ladies, if you can’t see the poll, click here to take it. Guys, to take the same poll for gentlemen only, click here.

Polls
Guys Only: When Was Your First Solo O?

<a href =”http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/1442339/” >Gentlemen, how old were you when you had your first orgasm via masturbation?</a> <br/> <span style=”font-size:9px;” mce_style=”font-size:9px;”> (<a href =”http://www.polldaddy.com”> surveys</a>)</span> Guys, if you can’t see the poll, click here to take it. Ladies, to take the same poll for gals only, click here.

Research
Cougars Have Smarter Kids… But Do They Want Them?

photo by Harlequeen A recent study found that men may have a biological clock after all: The children of older fathers were found to have lower IQ scores than those of younger dads. And this is in addition to earlier studies showing that schizophrenia and autism are more common in the offspring of men who […]

Personal Essays
Confession: My Boyfriend and I Have Crushes on Other People

Our contributor Kristine deGuzman, a junior at UC Berkeley, has a confession to make: It was my roommate’s 21st birthday a few Fridays ago, so my roommates and I decided to throw her a massive birthday party at our apartment. My boyfriend opted to chill in my bedroom for most of the night, while I […]

Dear Em & Lo
Dear Em & Lo: Should I Tell My BF I’ve Been Faking?

photo of Katz’s Deli, where Meg Ryan famously faked an orgasm, by Aaron_M Dear Em & Lo, I am a college student, and have been with this guy for six months. The sex is absolutely amazing, we do it about four times a day average, but he has never made me orgasm through intercourse. My […]

Confessions
Ladies: Do You Like Quickies?

Ladies, we’re working on an article about quickie sex and we’d love your feedback! Do you like quickies, and if so, why? How do you compensate for the lack of foreplay? Would you have sex more often if it didn’t always take so long? If so, is there a “nice” or “sexy” way to suggest […]

Websites
We're in Naked Love on the Sundance Channel Blog

the Sundance Channel’s new blog The Sundance Channel has just launched a spiffy new blog called SUNfiltered. It’s got posts from various writers (e.g. Andrew Hearst and our new BFF Bobbie Redford) on culture, film, green issues, design, music, and love — “naked love“, to be exact. Yours truly will be contributing to the saucier […]

Wise Guys
How Can I Have a MMF Threeway?

Advice from three of our guy friends. This week a straight woman asks, “How can I can convince two hetero dudes to have a threeway with me?” Straight Single Guy (Max): Barring the possibility that you could trick these “hetero” dudes into your lair (using beer, snacks or Ahnold movies) I’d say that your best […]

Polls
Ladies, Do You Enjoy Your PS Spot?

photo by CarbonNYC Have you even heard of the P.S. Spot? Well, just beneath a woman’s perineum (that short bridge of tissue between the vaginal opening and the anus) is a tightly packed tangle of blood vessels known as the perineal sponge (hence, the P.S.). Like other erectile tissue, this mass fills with blood upon […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Should She Go Downtown?

photo by iandeth We feel just awful that we can’t answer every single advice question we get, but we figure that any answer is better than no answer at all. Which is why, once a week, we’ll let you guys decide how to advise a reader. Make your call by filling out the poll after […]

Do It Tonight
Do It Tonight! Be Kind to the Waitstaff

photo by independentman On a dinner date, always be courteous to the waitstaff. Never snap, clap, cry “Waiter,” or worse, “Garcon!” to get your attendant’s attention; wait until you catch your server’s eye, then simply nod, gently raise your eyebrows, or, as a last resort, raise your hand. Say please and thank you — never […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: My Mom Walked in on Me & Lil Wayne

photo by killa_kam Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a woman asks Lauri: I had this dream the other night where my mom and I were on vacation and the rapper I like, […]

Pop Culture
A New Word for Webster’s: Melon Balling

It’s official! That unspeakable term for the act involving a woman’s boobies and a man’s peen is out — and “melon balling” is in! Arbitrarily and without warning, we closed the polls today on the election of a new word to replace the awful…don’t make us say it (you know, it’s the one with the […]

Websites
Blog Snog (03-27-09)

photo by BruceTurner A weekly roundup of sex- and love-related posts from some of our favorite blogs and websites: A contributor to the new site Kiss and Dish writes an open letter to losers at nightclubs. Is the tween-version of Dora the Explorer just part of growing up or is she now Whora the Sexplorer? […]

Do It Tonight
Do It Tomorrow Night! Turn off the Lights

photo via Google Earth This Saturday, March 28th, at 8:30pm local time all around the world, individuals, companies, historical landmarks, towns and countries have committed to turning off the lights for one hour to highlight the threat of climate change. According to Earthhour.org‘s Facebook page, Sydney turned off the lights in 2007 and cut their […]