Wise Guys
Wise Guys: What's the Appeal of Giving Oral?

photo by Bogdan Suditu Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “For guys who like to give oral sex, what’s the appeal? What differentiates them from the guys who seem to hate giving it?” Gay Single Guy (Angelo Nikolopoulos): From all the straight men that I’ve queried over this […]

TV
Guess Whose Year Book Pic?

photo via UnAmericana Yep, Rachel Maddow’s. Out and proud Rachel Maddow of MSNBC’s kick-ass liberal politics show “The Rachel Maddow Show.” Maddow, who wears as little makeup as the producers will let her get away with, who would never be caught dead in feminine jewelry (let alone pearls!), who’s always in jeans and sneaks under […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: I Woke Up with a Prostitute

photo by loveloveshine Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about love and sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I had a dream where I woke up from a deep sleep to find a woman going down […]

Websites
Blog Snog: Why G.I. Joe Should Be Your Dating Coach

photo by Compulsive_Collector CollegeCandy: Why G.I. Joe makes an awesome dating coach. YourTango: Why do couples start to resemble one another? TomFoolery: The bizarre Brooklyn divorce case in which a judge ordered the couple to literally erect a wall in the middle of the house. Eden Fantasys’ Sexis: Nina Hartley tackles dyeing pubic hair and […]

Celebrities
Sex Degrees of Separation

We, Em & Lo, worked with and are friends with (and Lo was apt-mates with) Jessica Baumgardner, who married Irad Eyal, which is our connection to the new book “Sex Degrees of Separation.” Irad has just turned his unhealthy obsession with celebrity hook-ups into an exhaustive encyclopedia that combines the idea of “six degrees of […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Sex Toys Are For Old Folk Too

Toys are great for an older couple who want to try something new and exciting. We have been married 36 years. Due to a number of health issues and powerful medications, my equipment doesn’t work well anymore. My self esteem was rock bottom. One day as I was driving by an adult shop, I stopped […]

Pop Culture
Tell Us About Your Sex Life and Win a Free Kissa Toy!

photo by love janine Don’t think of it as bribery… think of it as a thank you gift for sharing. We’re working on an article for a mainstream (very respectable!) magazine about couples’ sex lives, and we want to talk to you. The idea of the piece is, most of us have no idea what […]

Personal Essays
Confession: Withdrawal Is Not an Option

A college-student contributor friend of ours, who wishes to remain anonymous, has a confession to make: “I thought you said you were going to pull out.” In the dark, I could still see his expression, startled yet a little defiant, as if the fact that he had just come inside me without the safety barrier […]

News
Yet Another Reason We're Glad We Were '80s Children

Remember back when Madonna was first huge, in the ’80s, and girls who wanted to be just like her wore black rubber bracelets up to their elbows and multiple crucifixes, even if they were Jewish? It seems almost quaint now that girls are wearing imported, illegal contact lenses that may damage their eyesight, just to […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Vanessa: My G-Spot Hurts

photo by procsilas Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood ® Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. When I have sexual intercourse with my boyfriend, whenever he hits my G-spot it feels good […]

Toys
Perverse "Twilight" Merch

From the “why didn’t we think of that?” department: Salon recently put together a slide show of the strangest “Twilight Saga” merchandise out there — most of it disturbingly sexual, especially considering how little sex there is in the series (and what sex there is, as you probably know, is utterly disappointing). These are the […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation – My Boyfriend Is a Baby, Literally

photo by gabi menashe Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about love and sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I had a dream that I was sitting down on the floor with a child. He looked […]

Research
Dubious Sex Studies of the Week

image by Caveman_92223 Okay, we know we’ve been guilty in the past of drumming up sex research into juicy, slightly misleading headlines. But we’re trying to be better people, we promise! (In our defense, who can possibly resist reporting on a study claiming that wearing socks leads to better sex?) In the meantime, here are […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: What's the Biggest First Date Turn-Off?

photo by Philippe Guillaume Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What’s the number one turn-off on a first date for a guy?” Straight Married Guy (Matt): Bad breath. That would be it for me with the first whiff — any chance of relationship: done. Most other things (obviously […]

News
Have a Great Independence Day Weekend!

photo by foxypar4 We’re off for the long holiday weekend (and hope you are too!). We’ll be back with our regularly scheduled regimen of sex, love and everything in between on Tuesday, July 6th. Until then, enjoy the Onion’s Patriotic Issue, visible only to real Americans. Happy Fourth!

Websites
Blog Snog: Sex & Gender Themes in Eclipse

TresSugar: Sex and gender themes in the latest Twilight installment, Eclipse. YourTango: A video on dealing with differing libidos. LemonDrop: How to gift in a new relationship (no iPads!). College Candy: Size doesn’t matter (stay tuned next week for the exact same article on why it does). TomFoolery: Are you out of his/her league? Eden […]