Tell Us About Your Sex Life and Win a Free Kissa Toy!

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Don’t think of it as bribery… think of it as a thank you gift for sharing. We’re working on an article for a mainstream (very respectable!) magazine about couples’ sex lives, and we want to talk to you. The idea of the piece is, most of us have no idea what goes on behind closed doors. We want to bust the myth that there is such a thing as an “average” or “normal” sex life — or an “average” or “normal” couple, for that matter. For example, do you look like a soccer mom but like to vacation at nudist resorts? Are you an upstanding member of your community who just happens to practice Tantric sex? Are you a buttoned-up office worker who likes to dress up for sex? Are you a mom (or dad) of three who still likes to make sex tapes?

This isn’t an article about sexual extremists — and we have no intention of painting you that way — but rather a way to celebrate couples who have avoided that dreaded sexual rut. Your stories will inspire all the couples out there who have succumbed to the rut.

We’re looking to interview couples from all over the country. And just by writing to introduce yourself to us, you’ll be entered into a contest to win one of 10 Kissas — a vibrating glass toy that’s non-porous, phthalate-free and hypoallergenic — from EdenFantasys.com! Send us an email at emlo A T emandlo D O T com or contact us using this form. We promise we will NOT release any of your information to anyone without discussing the piece with you further and getting your subsequent approval. Looking forward to hearing from you! And please, spread the word.


  1. my sex life is boring thats why im looking for free sex toys no guy can make me cum like a sex toy sadly my man stoll mine and wont give it back

  2. Well I am a 25 year old woman who has been dating a 40 year old man for about 7 months. I have never dated anyone more than 5 years older than me, or have had a sexual experience with. The first time we had sex blew my mind! I had sensations I’ve never felt before, made noises I’ve never made before (LOL!) and actually orgasmed. What I like about my guy is that we are on the same level sexually. I didn’t know how it would be sexually with an older guy because I have a high libido. But he is my perfect match because he knows how to please me so that I am really satisfied. He has taught me things about my body as well as I’ve learned more of what he likes too. We go to sleep most nights with sex and start our days off with it too. Dating an older guy has been an interesting and freeing experience, and I look forward to more of it with him.

  3. Hi. I’m 23 and a mother to two beautiful children. I’ve been with my boyfriend for early 8 years now.. Sex life; where do we find the time. with two little ones and a full time job.. what i find it is always the same thing everytime. i enjoy trying something new where he does; i think some sex toys will help us.

  4. me and my gf are both 20 and we have been going out for 2 years. we live together in a flat a small town. my girlfriend and me have a very amazing sex life. we have sex most nights and we like to experiment alot. we like watching porn movies together and have sex in all kinds of places including the bath shower the sofa and the car and we even did a bid in a back of a cinema. we have a couple of toys and equipment we like using like sex harnesses and restraints. I also like watching my girlfriend play with her toys in front of me. at the moment we r going thou a karma sutra book a page every night so we get to try all kinds of sexy positions and when we finish that we will move on to something else exciting.x

  5. I have excellent sex with my husband hes always up for whatever I have in mind. In fact after being married before I am surprised we have sex at all after over twenty years of only being with each other. He knows that I have sex toys and even enjoys watching me use them and likes it when we use them together. He is always encourageing me to try new things even porn on the internet or anything else that makes me happy in bed. He relizes that if I am happy he will be happier too. Just the other night we had the most hottest fuck session imagineable. He got the toys and the oils,lotion and everything you could think of including candles out and surprised me with alittle sex in the most unbeliveable positions. He may be sixtyone years old but he fucks like he is sixteen still.

  6. I am not sure if this is way too late but I am a teacher in my early thirties. I had dated I don’t know how many losers before meeting my current dream guy boyfriend on craigslist of all places. Neither one of us are your typical strange craigslisters so it is funny that I responded to his ad…something I had only done once before.

    Our challenge is that he works nights four nights a week and I am very much a days person. We have managed to explore different times of day to make things happen and keep the sparks sparking. We really love morning sex and turning in early on the weekends to ensure I am awake and ready when he is. This was discovered after figuring out that I start losing my energy after midnight…just when he is waking up. We have figured out that we both love make this time last for hours. We make sure that we make up for the week’s gap in together time by having a few more than just one roll in the hay. It is great to look forward to and try out new positions and things we have been thinking about throughout the week. It also builds anticipation.

  7. My boyfriend and I just celebrated our one-year anniversary last week. 🙂
    Before him, I had only sexually been with one other man – who I am sad to say, was not very good in bed. When I say that he wasn’t good – I mean that in the beginning he had problems getting “it” up, and later when it worked, he was a selfish lover who was only concerned with his own finish. Needless to say, the only orgasm I ever experienced was with my rabbit 😉
    My boyfriend and I try to have sex at least once a day – sometimes more. And I almost always achieve an orgasm with him.
    He makes me feel so comfortable with my body – and though it is far from perfect, I always feel beautiful when I’m naked with him. He puts my sexual satisfaction before his own, and our mutual desire to satiate one another makes for amazing sex every single time.

  8. Also….the best sex we have…..is when we are in total lust for the other emotionally and physically because we like the person we see in front of us and we just need to be one with them. It’s open, honest and real.

  9. I am 46 and my partner of 7 years is 45. We met at a time I was coming into my own sexually as a woman. He has always had an inquisitive nature sexually but never had a partner that felt the same. When our relationship began we talked openly and in detail about our past sexual experiences along with what intrigued us and how those experiences affected us both good and bad. For both of us nothing is really taboo. We explore situations, thoughts, toys, encounters and imagination in a way to bring new and exciting possibilities into our sex life. Sex is better now that it ever fathomed to be when we were younger. As you grow older you learn what pleasures you physically and what stimulates your mind, which we both find is our most vital sex organ.

    Our sex life has gone through several transitions over the years. For a long time we lived long distance, outside of the few times a year we could see each other, phone sex was our only way to share intimacy. We had to be creative to be fulling alone but together. Conversation, pornography, erotica, phone sex with others helped to be our toys for sexual play. Still today, we venture to those areas for new and exciting arousal. Endlessly we have taken our minds to situations/fetishes that enhance our libido. We both know and understand our limits, yet it’s pushing those limits that is one of our greatest turn ons.

    Definitely the sex we share is always hot and ever changing. We understand when there is a need for just pure hot raw sex, love making and when we need to “use” the other just to get off by being selfish and doing to the other what we need. Even during our intimacy, we go in and out of a variety of physical pleasures that come naturally.
    It’s about understanding who you are, what you need sexually for yourself, from your partner, and for your partner, then talking about those needs uninhibited. We both know sex can be gratifying from all angles and it doesn’t have to be shameful, exploitive or dangerous to be pleasurable.
    Our greatest regret sexually….that we didn’t have the opportunity to meet years ago in our 20s and go through the different seasons of our sexual needs for a lifetime together. We don’t regret that we were sexual with others previously because it has enhanced what we like and what we may not like about sex. There needs to be some type of attraction to your partner to have a connection, to be so intimate. Sex is not everything in our relationship, but it is a vibrant and important part of who we are as individuals and as a couple. It’s very important we nourish and work at keeping it exciting and pleasurable.

  10. I am a 50 year old female and have been with my current lover since last September. We have the most intensive sex that I’ve ever experienced. While I’m on top I can have up to 20 or more vaginal orgasms. I’ve also squirted a few times. These responses are all new to me, they have never occurred with any other lover. He can hold out for an incredible amount of time…up to 40 minutes. We have sex everyday, sometimes up to 8 times a day. I’ll be really sorry if this one (boyfriend) gets away.

  11. Hi! Married mom of 2. My husband (35) and I (43) are apart most of the time, but have an incredible sex life regardless. He writes me sexy letters, and we participate in phone sex and skype if tech issues allow. When we are together we enjoy the addition of toys. It took some time to get me to let go of the idea that “Good girls don’t do that”. But now it’s all on the play list!

  12. Hi I’m married mom of 2 and have the most amazing sex life… I am 36 and have always had a high sex drive… I love sex all kinds… oral, anal, regular… I love to give my husband oral…I love it! It is such a turn on! We go to strip clubs, watch porn, and take pictures of ourselves. Anything to keep it exciting and fresh…. We explore every inch of ourselves… We even had a girlfriend join in once…and hopefully again!

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