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Blog Snog: Men Are Bigger Snoops. Why Is That?

Nerve: Men are bigger snoops. Why is that? The Frisky: What’s the first book you masturbated to? YourTango: 7 aches and pains cured by orgasms. PopSugar: Italian romance films to stream right now. How About We: 5 best booty call text messages. 150 Shades of Play: Kink things up this Halloween.

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: My Ex and My Current Boyfriend Are Interchangeable

photo via Flickr Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I had a dream where my current boyfriend of six months, […]

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Sex After Miscarriage & Stillbirth

Reconceiving Loss is a new online resource for people coping with losing a pregnancy or an infant. There are articles on health and wellbeing, yoga and meditation suggestions, and opportunities for healing through creative expression (e.g. writing, photography, even playlist compilation). One of their contributors, clinical psychologist Dr. Julie Bindeman, recently wrote about sex after […]

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Dear Em & Lo: My Boyfriend Won’t Go Down on Me

photo via Flickr Dear Em and Lo, When my boyfriend and I started seeing each other he made it clear he had a problem with performing oral sex and so I’ve never asked him to do it as, after all, I wouldn’t want to do something I wasn’t comfortable with or wouldn’t enjoy. However, after […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Monogamish Is the Future

Franklin Veaux’s Map of Non-Monogamy This week’s Comment of the Week by AlanK is a response to last week’s Comment of the Week called “9 Reasons Why Women Cheat” by  Johnny, which was a response to the post “Why Women Cheat — A Married Man Goes Undercover”: Things wear out; the tires on your car wear […]

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LAST CHANCE: Tell Us About Committed Sex & Win a Liv2!

sponsored post ** THIS CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED! CHECK OUT THE WINNING ENTRIES HERE. ** You have until midnight EST on Wednesday, September 18th to enter our latest contest: All you have to do is tell us your favorite thing about committed sex (as opposed to, say, casual sex or first-time sex or new sex or ex sex or […]

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What Is the U-Spot?

This is part of our continuing series on Top Body “Spots” that any self-respecting, shall we say, “anatomy enthusiast” should be familiar with. Even if this is old news to you, it’s always a good idea to brush up: The U-Spot a.k.a. urethral spot This is the external area surrounding the urethral opening on a woman. Like the […]

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Your Call: My 53-Year-Old GF Slept with 20-Year-Old Guys

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call on the letter below by leaving your advice in the comments section.  Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New […]

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Your Weekly Horoscopes: 09-16-2013

photo by Simply Schmoopie Each week, we at EMandLO.com predict the course of your love life for the week with our own version of irreverent horoscopes — ignore our advice at your own peril! (Hyperbole intended for dramatic effect.)  aries (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th) In Buffy, the Vampire Slayer (the 1992 movie, of course), our shop-aholic savior doesn’t go out […]

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Blog Snog: The 12 Best Dates in Fiction

How About We: The 12 best dates in fiction. Your Tango: Win a vacay in this couple’s Halloween costume contest. The Frisky: The smaller the balls, the better the father. PopSugar: Big love lessons from Harry Potter. Nerve: “I’m addicted to mediocre sex.” 150 Shades of Play: Get freaky for Halloween!

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How to Tell a Vanilla Partner About Your Kink

We frequently hear from readers who are struggling with an imbalance of kink in their relationship — one partner is vanilla while the other is decidedly chocolate-swirl-fudge. So we asked Richard Wagner, a.k.a. Dr. Dick (seriously), the author of the new book The Gospel of Kink: A Modern Guide To Asking For What You Want And […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: My Boyfriend Said No to a Threeway

Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. Got a dream you want Lauri to analyze? Click here to submit it. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I had a dream last night that me and my boyfriend were having sex […]

Pop Culture
Sex and Dating Acts That Should Have a 24 Hour Waiting Period

The Washington, D.C., Department of Health just posted proposed tattoo and body piercing regulations, and one of the recommendations is that a 24-hour waiting period be imposed for tattoos. In other words, if you stumble into a tattoo parlor one Saturday night and drunkenly demand a tattoo of Miley Cyrus twerking or a Chinese symbol […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: 9 Reasons Why Women Cheat

Long-time reader (and unofficial EMandLO.com sage!) Johnny said the following in response to our post “Blog Snog: Why Women Cheat — A Married Man Goes Undercover”: Women cheat because:  They are no longer sexually excited by their partners. They are no longer emotionally excited by their partners. Their partners are no longer sexually or emotionally […]

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What to Do If You Bump Into Tom Hanks

According to scientific research, at least 17% of you, our dear readers, still harbor a sex fantasy based on Elizabeth Perkins’ not-quite pedophilic crush in Big, and 11% of you occasionally indulge in a mermaid-related Splash fantasy. Also, 3% of you have a fantasy based on the Forrest Gump premature ejaculation scene. And let’s not […]

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Contest Reminder: Tell Us About Committed Sex & Win a Liv2!

sponsored post ** THIS CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED! CHECK OUT THE WINNING ENTRIES HERE. ** Don’t forget to check out our latest contest: All you have to do is tell us your favorite thing about committed sex (as opposed to, say, casual sex or first-time sex or new sex or ex sex or breakup sex), and you will […]