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Toys
Incentive to Do Your Kegels

Here”s a cool new toy: vibrating dual balls that you can control the incremental speeds of via your PC muscles! It’s basically a “squeeze me” toy you control from the inside (you can manipulate it manually too, if you’re a lazy twat). The Vanity Vr1 by Jopen, part of their whole cool Vanity series, is […]

Websites
Blog Snog: When the Assault on Planned Parenthood Becomes Personal

photo via Flickr EdenFantasys’ Sexis: A moving, personal account of one woman’ relationship with and fight for Planned Parenthood. MyDaily: Naked, online, Ebay revenge. CollegeCandy: A true story about having HPV (who doesn’t these days?). TresSugar: Colleges besides BYU that are strict about sex. YourTango: Can you speak any of the 5 languages of love? […]

Books
When Sex Hurts — And We Don’t Mean Heartbreak

photo by mistress_f We’ve been writing about sex for more than ten years, and when we started out, the topic that our female readers wanted to hear about most was orgasms — how to have them, either solo watching toonsex xxx or with a partner, how to have them more often, how to have different […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: Why Can’t I Climax from Oral?

illustration via Foxtongue We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Dear Em & […]

Pop Culture
A Baby Video on YouTube That’s Actually Art

watch the Las Palmas trailer This doesn’t have much to do with love and sex, except that we love this trailer which features an adorable product of sex. The teaser is from the short film LAS PALMAS by Johannes Nyholm, which just won the Short Film Award and the Audience Award at the Gothenburg Int’l […]

How To
10 Rules for a Dinner Date

Got a dinner date planned for this weekend? These 10 rules should help. Remember, you should be an animal in the bedroom, not the dining room. 1. Never sit next to each other on one side of a table unless you’re being filmed for a reality TV show. Be adults and sit facing each other. […]

What's Up Doc?
Dear Dr. Vanessa: I’ve Missed My Period for Months, Years Even!

photo by greenchartreuse Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood® Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, I haven’t had my period since August of 2008. I’m 21 and am not […]

Confessions
Comment of the Week: Communication Is Fundamental

photo by bixentro Dannie‘s voice of reason emerged this past week in a debate about body fluid etiquette: It’s all about attraction/what you like/don’t like. Nobody is expecting everyone to like things one way or another, and no one is telling anyone they’re wrong for liking what they do. We all just have different types […]

Dear Em & Lo
Dear Em & Lo: Oops! I Forgot to Use Condoms

photo by trec_lit Dear Em & Lo, I’ve been sleeping with this guy for about three weeks, and our semi-non-relationship began the night after he broke up with his girlfriend of 8 months. We used a condom the first couple times, but then we stopped. I’m on the Pill and while I’m not worried about […]

News
Naked News: Didn’t Have THAT When We Were in College

Northwestern University human sexuality class has live demonstration by a kinky couple (we’d feel better about that if the guy had been naked too and hadn’t been wielding a modified power tool). HuffPo has a DOMA “for Dummies” rundown. Egads: half of US men have HPV! Along with consensual sex within an adult, monogamous, committed […]

Wise Guys
Wise Guys: How Can I Get Him to Be More Romantic?

Advice from three of EMandLO.com’s guy friends. This week they answer the following: “How can I get him to be more romantic?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Married Guy (Irad Eyal): The secret I’m about to reveal is guaranteed to make a guy more romantic. It also works if you […]

Dream Interpretation
Dream Interpretation: Kissing an Ex I Was Never Into

photo by rileyroxx Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: Before I went to sleep, I’d just had a disagreement with my boyfriend and we settled it. It was something […]

News
“Mohammed Was a Child Molester”?

click image for video “Mohammed was a child molester, Mohammed was a pervert…” Those are just some of the chants protesters hurled at attendees (many children) of a charity dinner held in Yorba Linda, CA by ICNA Relief (an American Muslim relief organization) to help raise money for projects that include women’s housing, hunger prevention, […]

Websites
Blog Snog: Was Juliet Ovulating When She Met Romeo?

YourTango: Was Juliet ovulating when she met Romeo? TheFrisky: 20 morning-after dealmakers and dealbreakers. EdenFantasys’ Sexis: How do lesbians decide who’s in the driver’s seat in bed? MyDaily: How to stop fighting. TomFoolery: On ogling and your G.P.A. CollegeCandy: 5 signs your friend is really a frenemy. TresSugar: 5 things you didn’t know about sex […]

Pop Culture
“Comics Stripped” at The Museum of Sex

For those of you have a hard time reconciling your porn collection with your conscience (who can’t forget that the fornicator before you is somebody’s son or daughter), there’s illustrated pornography, dirty comics, and adult graphic novels. With this kind of erotica, you don’t have to worry about any real-live human animals being harmed in […]

Dear Em & Lo
Your Call: What Do I Do When I Get on Top?

We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below: Hi Em and Lo, I need […]