Polls
Women, which is worse: Your partner’s one-night stand with someone they cared less about, or their emotional affair (fall in love but do nothing physical)?(opinion) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.
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Dear Em & Lo
Dear Em & Lo, After a particularly hot session with my husband the other night, he had what seemed to me like a really intense orgasm. But when I went to the bathroom afterward to clean up, it appeared as if he didn’t actually ejaculate. Basically, there was nothing to clean up, even when I […]
News
photo by [177] According to a recent study, men who are smart and funny may have healthier sperm, too. We can’t believe it: Last week we were praising Glamour magazine for publishing a photo of an average-sized woman; now this week we’re giving the thumbs up to Playboy (yes, Playboy) magazine, for their list of […]
Dream Interpretation
photo by Xtina_Lam Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means (after the jump). This week, a reader asks Lauri: Okay. First a little history. About two years ago my husband cheated on me and got the […]
Wise Guys
photo by The_Artifex Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: What do you think about circumcision? Gay Engaged Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): I know one person who was circumcised as an adult, so he’s the only guy I can think of who knows what it’s like both […]
Websites
Years ago, we were part of the team that created Nerve.com’s Position of the Day. The challenge was coming up with the positions; the fun was coming up with the names: “The Quasimodo,” “The Wet Blanket,” the “I Can See My House from Here.” So we were really curious about the Snuggie Sutra, a website […]
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We hope you’re taking the day off too, and that the weather is nice where you are. We’ll be back tomorrow with your weekly horoscopes and the Wise Guys on circumcision. Mwah!
TV
In honor of the beginning of the fall TV season, we present our top picks for the most sexy-mood-destroying TV shows: Gossip Girl — Because who can possibly compete with fantasy, airbrushed sex like that? It’s enough to make your own sex life feel positively black and white. The Office — The butt-clenching stress that […]
Websites
“Dear Old Love” is a Tumblr blog (celebrating its one-year anniversary) which collects short, anonymous notes to romantic interests both past and present, requited and unrequited. Reading them will crack you up/break your heart/make you wonder if they’re from your own S.O.s or exes: Tuned In — I hope you took acid this past weekend […]
Websites
photo via TresSugar A weekly roundup of some of our favorite sex- and love-related posts from various blogs and websites: TresSugar rounds up the Top 10 Tackiest Bachelorette Party Favors and asks an excellent question: While everything else at the party is penis-centric, why is the one item that would make sense with one, the […]
Confessions
DIY popsicle mold, $9.99 at Amazon Earlier this week we published a letter from a reader who loves playing with ice in bed…but hates the way it freezes her fingers. She asked for a solution, and you guys came through! “One word — popsicle. Put a few sticks in the ice cube tray. And prepare […]
Websites
“As if it were a surprise” by AwkwardBoners.com AwkwardBoners.com is one of those genius sites that appeals equally to 13-year-old boys and, well, us. While awkward boners in public can be kind of creepy (like when the guy across from you on the subway has morning wood — one of many reasons why men should […]
Polls
Gals, have you ever tongue kissed someone outside of your identified sexual orientation? (I.e. if you’re a straight woman, have you ever kissed a woman?)(polling) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.
Polls
Guys, have you ever tongue kissed someone outside of your identified sexual orientation?(answers) Can’t see the poll? Click here to take it.
Dream Interpretation
photo by TheNaughtyAmerican.com Other people’s dreams are never interesting…except when they’re about sex. Each week, our dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells one lucky reader what their dirty dream means. This week, a reader asks Lauri: I dreamt that I was in a gigantic ballroom with hundreds of people I didn’t recognize but knew I should. […]
Personal Essays
photo by mtkopone Our contributor Ryan, who blogs at Student Loans for Beer Money, has a confession to make: Most summers I look forward to an endless string of parties at which I usually get hammered and hook up with some stranger. I’m a 19-year-old guy — how else am I supposed to pass the […]