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I’ve recently started seeing a woman I really like (we’ve just started sleeping with each other). She doesn’t yet know I’ve got a pretty kinky side and I don’t want it to scare her off. I was thinking of using Halloween as an opportunity to gently introduce her to this side. We’re going to a costume party on Monday and neither of us have decided on costumes. I could try to convince her to go as the dominatrix to my love slave, or as the housewife in American Horror Story to my pvc body suit guy (not that I’m THAT kinky — I don’t own my own gimp suit, I just like the occasional bondage/spanking/rough sex thing, both giving and receiving). So my questions are 1) Is this is a good way to test the waters with her and 2) if so, do you have any costume recommendations?
— American Horny Story
What should AHS do?
