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Tag Archive | "Casual Sex"

Dear Em & Lo: He Says It’s Just Sex, But Then He Holds My Hand

Wednesday, October 31, 2012


photo via flickr Submit Your Own Question to EMandLO.comTry Our New *PRIVATE* Advice Service! Dear Em & Lo, I met this guy through Facebook. We met up at a bar he goes to all the time. When I come walking in he does a double take. We hit it off right off the bat! Yeah! [...]

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Comment of the Week: Why First-Date Sex Isn’t a Relationship Killer

Wednesday, October 3, 2012


Reader Lisa said the following in response to the (oldie-but-goodie) post “Wise Guys: Is Sex on a First Date a Relationship Killer?” When you go out with a guy, he’s already decided what he wants out of that relationship, whether it be a LTR or a one night stand. You just have to learn how [...]

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Can Open Relationships Cure Jealousy?

Tuesday, September 18, 2012


photo via flickr We’ve always said that if you want to be in an open relationship, it helps if you’re the kind of advanced human being who is missing the jealousy gene. (Neither of us comes even remotely close, for the record.) It just seems like, if you’re going to be cool with your one-and-only [...]

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Top 10 Sex Tips for First Year College Students

Wednesday, August 29, 2012


photo from Colgate University For many young men and women, this week marks the start of a new chapter of life — one of higher learning, critical thinking, problem solving, horizon broadening, and lots and lots of casual bonking. It’s a whole new world of unchaperoned independence and freedom combined with 18-year-old hormones — which [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: Did I Ruin Things By Sleeping with Him Too Soon?

Wednesday, June 20, 2012


photo via flickr G’day mates (yep I’m Australian), Okay, the scenario:¬†Met a guy on a Friday at a shop. Swapped numbers and he asked me out. I couldn’t that weekend cause I was busy with my bday party.¬†He texted me Saturday night to ask how the party was going and mentioned he was close by. [...]

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Your Call: In a Casual Relationship, What’s the Diff Btwn Honesty & TMI?

Wednesday, June 13, 2012


photo via Flickr  We get a lot of advice questions coming in at EMandLO.com, but sadly, we just can’t answer them all. Which is why, once a week, we turn to you to decide how best to advise a reader. Make your call by leaving your advice in the comments section below.  So, I have been having a casual sexual [...]

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Guess the Celebrity Casual Sex Quote

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

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photo via “The Voice” Most of the time when celebrities are interviewed, they blab on about how talented the director was or what their craft means to them (yawn). But every now and then they’ll open up about something a little more racy. See if you can match up the following celebrities to their quotes [...]

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Wise Guys: Do Men Admit to Other Current Casual Sex Partners?

Tuesday, April 10, 2012


photo via¬†Flickr Advice from three of EMandLO.com‚Äôs¬†guy friends. This week they answer the following:¬†‚ÄúIf a guy is casually hooking up with someone and exclusivity has not yet been established, is he obliged to tell that person about other people he’s sleeping with? And should he offer up that information, or should he wait to be [...]

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Question of the Week: What’s Your Number?

Thursday, January 19, 2012


The movie What’s Your Number? (just released on DVD) is based on the totally annoying premise that a woman (played by the usually much funnier and better-than-this Anna Faris) freaks out when she reads a magazine article and discovers that her sexual body count (20) is twice the average. So she decides that rather than [...]

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Comment of the Week: Why Settle for Milk If You’re Looking for a Whole Cow?

Wednesday, January 11, 2012


photo via flickr Comments of the week don’t necessarily reflect our personal opinions — sometimes it’s simply a thoughtful response that we think merits further discussion. This week, in response to the post “Wise Guys: Is Sex on a First Date a Relationship Killer?”¬†reader William says this: Why would you want to have sex on [...]

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