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Tag Archive | "Libido"

Wise Guys: Can a Woman Say “You Go Ahead” In Bed?

Tuesday, November 9, 2010


photo by footfan33602 Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “When a woman says, ‘We can focus on you now, it’s not going to happen for me tonight,’ how do guys tend to feel about this? Relieved? Insulted? Is it a mood-killer?” To ask the guys your own question, [...]

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Wise Guys: Why Do Men Deny Masturbating?

Tuesday, September 28, 2010


photo by Anika Malone Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Why do some men — single, married, in relationships, straight, gay, bisexual, etc. — deny masturbating?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Gay Engaged Guy (Joel Derfner, author of Swish): Are you serious? I’ve never [...]

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Wise Guys – What’s Up with the Sex-Sports Connection?

Tuesday, August 31, 2010


photo by Gil Searcy Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “What is the connection between sports and sex with guys? For instance, why were certain World Cup teams prevented from having sex while others are given the green light? Is there a connection between testosterone and the thrill [...]

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Comment of the Week: Save a Piece of the Sex Pie for Yourself

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

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photo by smulligannn I reckon that as well as part of the sexuality pie we share with our partners, we all still have slices that belong to us as an individual. Perhaps if you feel his personal slice is way outweighing the slice you’re sharing as a couple, just have a good old wank yourself! [...]

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Wise Guys – Should I Worry If He Masturbates More Than We Have Sex?

Tuesday, August 10, 2010


photo by Tavallai Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “If he masturbates more often than he has (or wants) sex with me, his wife, should I be worried?” To ask the guys your own question, click here. Straight Single Guy (Mark Luczak): I realize that some of my [...]

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Your Call – Does Bad Sex Have to Be a Deal-Breaker?

Tuesday, August 3, 2010


photo by M31. Can sexual compatibility improve over time in a relationship — or does it need to be there from the start for the relationship to work? Is bad sex necessarily a deal-breaker? Read the letter below and then advise “Underwhelmed” in the feedback section below. Dear Em & Lo, I’ve always been a [...]

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Wise Guys: Is There Such a Thing as Too Much Sex?

Tuesday, May 4, 2010


photo by fhwrdh Advice from three of our guy friends. This week they answer the following: “Is there such a thing as too much sex for a guy? Or will men generally be up for it whenever it’s offered/available?” Gay Single Guy (Daniel): THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH SEX for a guy. [...]

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Dear Dr. Vanessa: Any Medical Libido Booster for Gals?

Thursday, February 4, 2010


photo by Tiago Ribeiro Every few weeks, Dr. Vanessa Cullins, a board-certified obstetrician/gynecologist and vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood¬ģ Federation of America, will be answering your questions here. To ask her your own question, click here. Dear Dr. Vanessa, Is there a safe, medical way to improve my libido? Is there a [...]

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Dear Em & Lo: I Love Sex! Does That Make Me a Slut?

Friday, January 8, 2010


Dear Em & Lo, Lately, my need for sex has been UNQUENCHABLE. It’s reached the point where I’ve roped two booty calls into alternating nights. Am I a slut for doing this? I’m worried that I’m becoming addicted to sex — and I’m only 23! I’ve always had a high sex drive but I’ve never [...]

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Turns Out There IS Such a Thing as Too Many Orgasms

Wednesday, December 9, 2009


photos via BeautifulAgony.com When we first saw the headlines this past week about a woman who has 300 orgasms a day finally meeting the man of her dreams — i.e. a man who could keep up with her libido — we assumed the story would be about Marrena Lindberg, whom we interviewed last year for [...]

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